06:35
JA: And I should have just known better and admitted it. I eventually learned how to argue with Travis and it?s...
06:39
DF: Talk to my wife. She?s like okay fine you?re right...
06:42
JA: Yeah. Eventually that?s what I began to do with him. It?s like the more I just agree with him the sooner the argument gets over and the sooner we can make up, and the make up was always great. Umm?but, umm?there were so many times I just couldn?t wrap my mind around what he? I could? but I would try to get him to do the same for me?like there was a time I broke down on the way to LA once when I was going to watch Chris Hughes do a training, umm and this was January, umm mid January maybe of 2007, and my car got a flat tire, so I had at the time roadside assistance cos my car was still under warranty, and they went to take the car in to change the tire and realized that when they sold me the car they didn?t give me the wheel lock key
07:20
DF: Oh man?
07:20
JA: for anti-theft wheel locks so? I had to get a hotel room, I had to get my car towed, it was a big nightmare ummm and I was kinda? hungry, it was dinnertime, it was 7:38 and it was dark cos it was January ummm?and the tow truck guy said you know there?s a Denny?s two blocks down here, and there?s a Jack in the Box there and he was driving me to the motel I said is there an IHop around, cos I really like IHop he?s like yeah but it?s like 5 miles back in the other direction. I was like uhhhh? okay. He says I can drive you there if you want. And I was like... he?s like this short Mexican guy and he seemed really harmless and I was like? ahhh okay and he, you know, I asked him about his life and he had a wife and kids and? so he wasn?t flirting? or he had girlfriend or something?
08:02
DF: he?s just trying to be nice to you
08:03
JA: Just being nice. And so I ended up telling, and he didn?t ever say anything inappropriate. And then he drove me and dropped me off and that was that. And umm?and I got to eat. And so I told that to Travis and he didn?t say anything at first
but it got back to Sky and sky was like why didn?t you call me and then I think eventually that was used against me to establish a pattern that I do weird things like that.
So, umm that?s something we had arguments about a lot was umm he?s just like?
08:31
DF: So he was really upset with you about that. He felt a little jealous, but?
08:35
JA: And?I? I?He told me once that he was a little bit jealous when he found that I went on one of those dates but he said I know we?re not dating. And he?s like I guess I am a little bit jealous, but with these other incidents he says it just concerns him because he thought that I would get myself into a situation where I?d get hurt because I have that sort of attitude. And I was really? since I joined Prepaid I?ve really trying to break out of my bubble and do things that are a little uncomfortable as far as umm? ummm? talking to people and you know I made a resolution this year to overcome a few fears that I have that I?m really scared of?and I think that by getting into that a little that I can overcome some of that. Umm but his... he did act jealous, but he wouldn?t say he was jealous. He would just say he was concerned.
09:22
DF: But he would tell other people about it?
09:24
JA: What do you mean?
09:25
DF: Did he tell Sky Hughes?
09:26
JA: Oh, yeah, he? I guess it got? I may have told Sky about that.
09:30
DF: But they probably had a conversation with him and he probably voiced his opinion
09:33
JA: They had many conversations.
09:33
DF: ?on how he didn?t like it.
09:35
JA: I know that him and Sky had lot of fights and arguments and it was? and I was the root of that a lot of time, but I think, you know, all in all, they? especially more recently they got along a lot better. I think she gave him a really hard time about our relationship, so it?s one of the reasons he really wanted to keep it under wraps.