The thing is, people like this girl don't give a fuck. They're selfish and stupid and indifferent to other people. I'm sure what she will take away from this is not so much that two people died but that SHE went through something terrible. Sadly, I've known people who had the same DUI thing as you're talking about and they were like WELL I AM SOBER NOW BECAUSE OH THIS ORDEAL IIIIII WENT THROUGH. Like, killing two people should not be your wake up call.