Snap or no snap. If when you 'snap', you slit the throat of a child and make photos for the family album, you are a fucking scumbag and nobody is to blame but the guy holding the knife.
Snap or no snap. If when you 'snap', you slit the throat of a child and make photos for the family album, you are a fucking scumbag and nobody is to blame but the guy holding the knife.
What? I have never in my life met a woman who was terrified of a man babysitting. But I also know men, not crazy assholes.
Oh, so now it's her fault because she should have known that men cannot be trusted to be babysitters.
Men should not even be trusted with their own children! Everyone knows men can't take care of children.
"...Jeffrey Dahmer... actually confessed and accepted his punishment. Had real remorse for the sick things he did. It's pretty bad when Jeffrey Dahmer is a better person than you are." ~Justice11 (re: Jodi Arias)
I actually babysit kids, believe it or not. Free of charge too. In fact, I pay to take care of the kids. That's the only way their parents will let them stay over, is if I pay for their food and entertainment. I guess that as much shows I'm a good guy as it does prove my personal theory wrong about letting men babysit your kids. Not that anyone will believe me, but for whatever it's worth.
I wear caps with flat brims and sunglasses with white frames. I...DROOL...
MJ did that too, but I think he was actually molesting the kids. I'm actually just taking care of them.
I wear caps with flat brims and sunglasses with white frames. I...DROOL...
Dusty Lee Guenther
(December 1, 2007 - December 7, 2011
Funeral Service: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 at 2:00 PM in the Craig-Hurtt Chapel.
Visitation: Monday, December 12, 2011 from 6:00-8:00 PM in the funeral home.
Burial: Hensley Cemetery near Mansfield, MO
Memorial Contributions: Wright County Children?s Home c/o the funeral home.
Obituary:
Dusty Lee Guenther, son of William Graham and Gina Guenther, was born on December 1, 2007 in Springfield, MO and departed this life on December 7, 2011 at his residence near Hartville, MO. He was 4 years old.
Dusty was a great son, a loving brother, and an all out amazing little boy. Anyone who knew him can not use just one word or one sentence to describe him. But I do know he will live on forever through everyone who knew him. He was an unforgettable, fun, loving, beautiful little boy. We will all keep his memory alive and well, and will never forget the way he touched our lives.
Dusty was preceded in death by a grandfather: Loren ?Dusty? Lee Guenther; great-grandfather: Frank Cook; great-grandfather: Jesse Graham; uncle: Dustin Lee Cook; and great-uncle: Christopher Best.
Dusty is survived by his father: William Graham and fianc?, Ambrosia, of West Plains, MO; his mother: Gina Guenther of Hartville, MO; sisters: Paris May Guenther, Patience Maria Morgan- Guenther, Paytent Mikayla Guenther, and Hailey Jade Graham; brother: Preston Scott Graham; paternal grandparents: Scott and Sandy Graham of Mtn. Grove, MO; maternal grandparents: Lonnie and Deborah Allen of Norwood, MO; great-grandparents: Judy Thornhill of Mtn. Grove, MO, Farris Thornhill of Greenwood, AR, Carolyn Graham of Brookline, MO, Patsy Hicks of Seymour, MO, Fred and Nancy Badders of Pratt, KS, Lowell Allen of Hartville, MO, Larry Guenther of Lee Summit, MO; great-great-grandmother: Lucile Cantrell of Seymour, MO; ; uncles: Matthew Guenther of St. Petersburg, FL, Cody Allen of Norwood, MO, and Kyle Allen of Norwood, MO; aunts: Carrie Graham of Mtn. Grove, MO, Christin Cook of Mansfield, MO; numerous great-aunts, great-uncles, and many cousins who loved Dusty and will miss him very much.
http://www.craighurttfuneralhome.com...06&fh_id=11022
Last edited by rachy; 12-13-2011 at 02:43 PM.
Sooooo... Why do you have to pay people to look after their kids? Are you like a scientist? Test subjects? Needs some 'splainin.
Poor little guy.
First off, she was going to work not going on a date.
At the time of the incident, Ms Guenther was at work while her two eldest daughters were at school.
It's not fair to paint this gal as getting someone to watch the kid as she went on dates. She was going to work, and in some situations, you do what you have to do. I can't imagine her grief. She might have been using the fact that this guy was in to her to help get shit taken care of, and this guy needed a place to hang his hat. Might as well get something out of him right? I've seen in the past arrangements where people help each other out, hell, as recent as a couple of years ago a good friend of ours got out of jail for meth charges. She honestly had nowhere to go. She was cleaned up and had to take random piss tests at any day during the week. She had to be clean so we felt safe with that part of things. We helped her get on her feet, I gave her a job and she crashed in the spare room, rode with me to work everyday. She paid a little bit of rent as she could and on occasions she would offer to watch Jackson so that we could go out on a date night. Yeah, a convicted felon, watching Jackson.
In this economy, you'll see more of these kind of things happening.
No way this young mom could see this coming and it really doesn't look like she had many options. People lose jobs because they don't have a sitter, period. Evej if she had a bad feeling about it, what the hell was she to do? Let her kids go hungry?
wow. mr deeznuts you just get fucking weirder and weirder.
I am Monday evening quarterbacking
It says everywhere this family was known as being murderers and this guy had a record.
That would be enough for me to say no.
I wont even let certain people dog sit for me.
I dont think that by saying the mother made a poor decision am i blaming her or justifying what Terry did
She had four kids, to say she makes poor decisions is redundant.
Matthew Guenther
send me an email with your phone number and I will call you and you can say that stuff directly to me if you think you can judge someone you don't know anything about. prayidontfindyou@hotmail.com
You know nothing of how hard she works to support her children or how many times she has lost a job because she didn't have a baby sitter. If i come steal something from you does that mean that in a couple years I am going to kill someones child? no, just because i would have stolen before doesn't even mean i will steal again. That means at that one moment in my life I was a thief. People can change, and you can never truly know if they did or not. Also, is every thief that gets out of prison going out and killing young children? No, I'm sure we would have heard about it in some statistical piece on the news by now. I, being a HUGE fan of logic, would like to know how you can say that she could have known this was going to happen and that it is her fault in any way shape or form. It is easy after the fact to sit there and point blame, but that's why there is a saying: hind sight is 20/20. Little logic for you, you probably won't understand because i'm sure you have a pretty low IQ. In the 20's and the 90's the stock market just kept rising stocks sold for way over their value in both situations but in the 90's the stock market had changed right. That's what everyone said and believed and some people got lucky they got out in time before they lost everything. Afterwards what happens, tons of people point back and say, what the hell were you thinking. look at all the signs, man all of you are so stupid it was your fault you lost everything. Read almost every book that was published about stocks in the 90s then read almost any book published about stocks after the crash. Not familiar with stocks? Ok are you a home owner? please say yes to that question. Unless you are completely retarded, and/or oblivious to what is going on in the ENTIRE WORLD, I shouldn't have to explain that one. Every situation where something bad happens, it is easy to look back and find some things you can say pointed to it. Oh, got another one, this one might be your style. I love me a good mystery novel or probably a movie in your case. In said movies or books the writer will place little hints along the way, things that point to the answer. I love these books/movies, because that guarantees you a enjoyable re-read, because when you go back through the book you then see what is plainly before you. But see the best writers will point you in another direction make you focus on what you think is important, deceive you, all while dropping you little clues that at the time you do not think is relevant. See I know you don't read these kind of books, because if you did you would want to know all of the facts before jumping to a conclusion. Because nothing is ever how it seems when you only get a small portion of the information in those books. But none of this will change your mind because you have a closed mind, Let me guess you came up with your entire opinion that you have been spouting off on these 2 threads after read just the headline and stuck to it no matter how much you read. Oh wait, there I go again assuming you read! I keep doing that. Ok, read the headline or heard the "coming up after the break" headline.. or do you watch the news maybe you got all your info from rumors or heaven forbid from topix. All I know is I would like for you to send you number to my email so that I can hear you say, out loud, the things you post with complete anonymity. You guys are preaching accountability, well lets see it, be accountable for your actions. Sorry, I kind of wrote this entire thing to "be a mom"(who im almost entirely sure uses different names to say the same thing and make it seem like more agree), didn't mean to leave the rest of you out. So um. ditto.:D Sorry, a little disrespectful but since you are I thought you would understand me better.
As for the topic of the thread, I think they should hand TJ over to me. I would keep him alive and in severe pain until I finally felt sorry for him. And if i did i would probably have to claim him as a dependent on my taxes for several years.
http://www.topix.com/forum/city/moun...7I2CV#comments
court documents:http://ozarksfirst.com/images/Multi_...%20charges.pdf
Poor kid. I hope it happened quickly and he didn't suffer, but I realize he probably did.
I don't leave my child with anyone, but that's because I'm not normal--I'm paranoid and I have anxiety x's 12,000 when it comes to my little girl. I always think the worst of people. It's not healthy of me to think this way, but meh...I don't run around complaining about never going on a date, getting kid-free time, ect.
I don't think it's fair for the mother to be blamed. She's probably blaming herself right now more than anyone else ever could. Who (other than me ) expects that a grown adult who's left to care for your kid is going to pretty much decapitate him?
I you, Beli.
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