Maybe if you said you lied and were sorry. Instead, you keep doubling down on it was an honest mistake. It was no honest mistake lying about name changes, marriage, that he said he was Trevor. You can't rewrite history, but you can humble yourself and truly confess to your bullshit. I'm judging your character, not the color of your skin or sexuality. You are doing yourself no favors by convincing yourself you didn't do anything wrong. Do you blame all your failures and dumbass moves on other's bias. Brennen Tammons, perhaps if you change your ways and become a better person by being honest with others and quit deflecting, you might get laid and maybe even find love and marriage. You should have learned these lessons in 3rd grade.