
Originally Posted by
AgathaAppleswine
Do you read ANYTHING that anyone writes, or do you just block out the parts that don't suit your own theories? He TOLD people about her. He was clearly looking for reassurance or reactions from people on how to deal with her. One of his friends that was interviewed clearly said, "I didn't think Jodi was a threat, so I didn't encourage him to seek help". Do you get this? Do you understand that Travis was looking to others for answers? Or is that just not goddamned good enough for you?
Many of Travis's close friends who also knew Jodi.... told him to get away from her in more ways than one. I know you follow the trial. This has been proven
The author says that he could have been Travis. He acknowledges that he was LUCKY. He acknowledges that the cops could do nothing for him. He acknowledges that a restraining order was useless. THE ONLY WAY HE GOT AWAY WAS TO PACK UP AND LEAVE.
But he isn't Travis is he? He's alive. Yes, he took action against his stalker didn't he? He stopped engaging. What stopped his stalker was calling the stalker's relative and saying to her, that he was putting a restraining order against her. The victim clearly says that he has not heard from this woman in years. See how his taking action, worked? Let's hope it continues.
Travis may have been getting to that point. What we know is that he told others about her behavior. What we know is that he tried to cut her out of his life. I suspect that he pressured Mimi to go on the trip to Cancun with him simply so that he could keep Jodi away from him.
He did not try to cut her out of his life. He chose to have a secretive sexual relationship with her right up to the day of his death.
You have implied over and over that Travis didn't do the right things, and that you did, so therefore you're still alive. I call bullshit. I've seen stalkers in action, and I know what does and does not happen is basically based on how big a fucking nutjob your stalker is.
Have you ever been stalked? If not, then you have no idea what you are talking about. Yes, I did do the right thing....I disengaged as did the author of the article. Who is still alive and who isn't?
I wouldn't consider Travis and Jodi 'dating' by any stretch of the imagination. Why do you insist that they were dating? Because they had phone sex? The evidence that Jodi provided could easily be twisted. To say that you know shit about Jodi and Travis's relationship based on the evidence JODI presented doesn't say much. She's a liar and a manipulator, and I think you've been had. You are saying you know "shit about Jodi and Travis.." etc. Why can't I ? My evidence is NOT based on Jodi's testimony. It is based on Travis's own words and his close friends. Some of who were witnesses for the prosecution. Don't they? Note the words sociopath and manipulative. If the abuser knows the vulnerabilities of their victim, it wouldn't be that hard to compel or convince that victim to do what they want. And we don't know all that transpired on June 4th. Remember, this was only ten days (or so, I keep forgetting the exact date) from when he went on his tirade. Travis seems like a pretty easy-going guy. After he blew up, maybe, like many victims, he felt badly about going off on her like that. Maybe he'd blown off his steam, and was going to make up with Jodi.
Yes we do know, the sexual and shower pictures ( evidence) found in the camera prove it. They were having a secretive relationship. Look at the timeline of their relationship? Why would he make up with his known stalker?
It really isn't fair of you to speak as if you know 100% what Travis did that day. You DON'T know. You just don't. Can you say for 100% certain that you know exactly how things went down on June 4th? Do you know the specifics of how Jodi gained entry to his house? Do you know with absolutely no doubt whatsoever that Travis was not manipulated or threatened by her before he was killed?
Of course he was manipulated. How do you think she got him into that shower after he consented to sex with her? He chose to let her into his home. You can't complain to your friends you have a stalker and then invite that stalker into your home and consent to have sex with them? For every action there is a reaction.
I think the answer to that is NO. You don't. You can't know, and you are making most of your assumptions about the sexual and romantic relationship between Jodi and Travis based solely on Jodi's words and evidence. That really isn't much to go on now, is it?