Thank you so much Justice! Again, sorry to vent on here but it just struck me considering the case we are following.Originally Posted by Justice11
Oh man, that is awful. :( I hope things can get worked out before something really bad happens.
Sending you some hugs.
Sigh - I missed everything after the phone call due to bad family news. Sigh. A while back I mentioned my sister-in-law who has extreme Narcissistic Personality Disorder and exhibits MANY of the same characteristics as Jodi. Well, apparently she pulled a loaded gun on my brother. I'm terrified that I might end up in the same position Travis' sisters are in right now. Just feeling that possibility makes me way more heartbroken for them. Dear God, please don't let that happen and don't let the children come to harm. Sorry to vent here, but it seemed ironically like a fitting place.
This makes me all the more want justice for Travis. If I had to sit through my SIL not only having murdered my brother but then to defile him in every other way (which she would because that's what NPD people do - everything is the other person's fault and never their own). I don't think I could keep my cool like his family is now. I think they have shown great class!I hope everything comes out ok.
I love the recaps. This site is the BEST!
uuhhhhggggg, I cannot imagine having to go through that. I will send good thoughts your way for sure. I hope you all stay safeThank you Shahoolie. It helps just to hear the kind words. He had to fly to Sacramento for work today, but will have to go back to their house to get his things and the kids tomorrow. I just went and had him a key made to our house so he can stay with us and the kids too - I don't know how the kid situation will work out, but I don't want them there. I hope she wouldn't, but I fear the idea of her using the kids to hurt him or actually hurting the kids. I'm hoping he allows me and the hubs to go with him to the house just to make sure she doesn't try anything (and I will definitely have my husband bring his gun just in case - I pray it stays in its holster, but maybe the presence will be enough to keep her from doing anything stupid).
And my brother is SUCH a good man. Like, there aren't many husbands like him in the world - makes a good living, very loving, involved in the family, great with the kids, cleans the house, spoils her rotten...etc.
Ugh, tearing up. Bless Travis' family, how did they deal with going through it actually happening. I'm terrified just at the prospect. WHY do people do stuff like this - and to people they love?!?!
Again, thank you for your kind words, you've always been so nice on this forum and I think you're awesome!!!
EXACTLY! Nor is it all that kinky. My husby was saying he should get me a cheerleader outfit because that'd be hot. And, we're not into kinky things. I didn't think it was weird, so I can't imagine why anyone in this day and age would think that was just SO off the wall. Come now...
OMG, these crack me up!!!! :D
Thank you Rae. Me too! Thankfully he has a very loving and supportive family - heck, we all immediately said, "bring the kids and stay with us" so he had three local houses to choose from! Lol. So, he will have a lot of love, support and help for him and the kids and I hope that will make a difference for all of them. I just hope she'll keep her distance and not do anything extreme when they have to be around each other.
I still say somebody has got to find a still from the day the erection was up on all the viewers in the courtroom and ppl were trying to avoid looking at it. I'm sorry but that shit is just funny.
Thank you so much! It's nice to have some additional support. I really appreciate it! My family is all so emotional and upset about it right now, so its so much easier and, surprisingly, more therapuetic at the moment to write it on here. I just get too heated about it if I talk with him or the rest of the family, so its helping me calm down, which is good.
Thank you all for being so kind!!!
PS - if she comes to my house and kills us all, please keep these posts and submit them to Juan Martinez and Detective Flores. I will love you all forever!(maybe this is a sick joke, but it made me laugh...)
Justice, your diary posts are hilarious......and brilliant! And SO spot on!!
Positive thoughts going your way Chelsea
She's got SKILLS! Murderess-journal-writing skills!!!
Thank you Queen! I'll take 'em! :)
haha I will totes get Juan on the job. And I am glad you are finding a way to let it outThank you so much! It's nice to have some additional support. I really appreciate it! My family is all so emotional and upset about it right now, so its so much easier and, surprisingly, more therapuetic at the moment to write it on here. I just get too heated about it if I talk with him or the rest of the family, so its helping me calm down, which is good.
Thank you all for being so kind!!!
PS - if she comes to my house and kills us all, please keep these posts and submit them to Juan Martinez and Detective Flores. I will love you all forever!
Sorry, Chelsea... that's just horrible. I know from personal experience that narcissists won't ever admit they need help. Hoping that your sister in law is forced to get some now before the situation gets any worse.Sigh - I missed everything after the phone call due to bad family news. Sigh. A while back I mentioned my sister-in-law who has extreme Narcissistic Personality Disorder and exhibits MANY of the same characteristics as Jodi. Well, apparently she pulled a loaded gun on my brother. I'm terrified that I might end up in the same position Travis' sisters are in right now. Just feeling that possibility makes me way more heartbroken for them. Dear God, please don't let that happen and don't let the children come to harm. Sorry to vent here, but it seemed ironically like a fitting place.
This makes me all the more want justice for Travis. If I had to sit through my SIL not only having murdered my brother but then to defile him in every other way (which she would because that's what NPD people do - everything is the other person's fault and never their own). I don't think I could keep my cool like his family is now. I think they have shown great class!
You're the best. I think I want to make out a special will dictating Juan and Flores as my team in case I am ever murdered. Lol. Heck, I work for an estate planning law firm, I should ask them if you can do that. They might think I'm paranoid and crazy, but whatev!haha I will totes get Juan on the job. And I am glad you are finding a way to let it out
I am feeling better and calmer by writing it out - thank you!!
that is SUPER cool. I am actually just in a paralegal program and I WANT to work in a law firm haha.You're the best. I think I want to make out a special will dictating Juan and Flores as my team in case I am ever murdered. Lol. Heck, I work for an estate planning law firm, I should ask them if you can do that. They might think I'm paranoid and crazy, but whatev!
I am feeling better and calmer by writing it out - thank you!!
I feel like we need Juan and Flores Tshirts haha. Also, maybe wear the Juan shirt if you have to go see her. Or just bring him. and Flores.
This all exploded from a counseling session where he actually mentioned some of the things she does. She just couldn't except that, and was angry he didn't blame his family instead (she always makes my parents the enemies even though they are wonderful parents). So, I believe you are completely right!!! She would rather destroy her family and injure my brother than admit she is at all at fault! (She has also physically strangled him and one time punched him so hard in the face that SHE had to go to the hospital because it broke her fingers). I worked so hard to love her, and now its hard not to hate her.
Omg thats awful Chelsey
NG asked Beth that same question tonight and her reply was that post sides stipulated it could be played. Over the years Juan objected but eventually agreed. I read somewhere that the family gave the okay, so they are really brave but must have figured maybe the jury needed to hear Hodi. Let's hope they were right.
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So sorry Chelsea, hang in there girl! May he have a guardian angel.
Oooooooooo I would SO do the design work! Team MF (Martinez & Flores)!!!
Good for you!!! Paralegals are always in demand - especially good ones. I hope you get a law firm as great as mine - the people (including the attorneys) are wonderful and the company is really good! When do you finish the program? Do you have a preference in type of law firm/ practice area?
Agreed! I don't want a family to break up, but unless she gets a LOT of help then I would rather my brother be able to be happy then stuck in that!!!
Thanks for the info! And thanks for the support!! HUGS!NG asked Beth that same question tonight and her reply was that post sides stipulated it could be played. Over the years Juan objected but eventually agreed. I read somewhere that the family gave the okay, so they are really brave but must have figured maybe the jury needed to hear Hodi. Let's hope they were right.
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So sorry Chelsea, hang in there girl! May he have a guardian angel.
Beantown Bitch- maybe it was an accident. I had to apologize to another poster the other day. I was trying to rep them but the site freaked out and kept throwing me into a new tab. After about three tries, it said "thank you for deducting reputation from this user." :( Oops!
Chelsea, so sorry to hear about you SIL problems. Keep 911 on speed dial and don't hesitate to call if she shows up. The cops will probably not arrest her unless she does something, but they can tresspass her from the house, which means if she comes back to your house again, they will arrest her. That has been my personal experience anyway. I have had to do that and the Mesa cops were great. Usually the threat of arrest is enough to keep the person away.
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