Quote Originally Posted by g r ee n ey e s View Post
I say be patient, and picky. Don't waste time getting to know people you know you don't have much in common with or any interest in their interests and vice versa. Only accept dates from people that are outwardly looking for a relationship or at least the same future relationship type goals.

If you think about it, there are a katrillion members on mds, right? Yet I am sure you only 'vibe' with a few of them, most are randoms. It's going to be the same online as irl. Most are not for the picking.
The latest "catch" on POF was a divorcee-alcoholic. He gets mad at me if I have to do laundry and don't come over. Glutton for punishment I am. I get criticized for not polishing my nails or blowing my hair out. But the sex is good.