I've told my boys that if they ever get into trouble with the law and they are jailed, im not bailing them out. They screwed up so im not paying for it, they are.
Back to the breast feeding thing though, I was talking to my husband and he was saying that he supports any woman who wants to BF, he thinks it's awesome that a woman can do that for her child but he also said he thinks that after a year, the baby should be weened. His opinion and I do agree.
I was on youtube and there were a shit ton of vids about breastfeeding older children and then i stumbled onto the vids of women who are having orgasms when in labor. That shit skeeves me out really really bad.
My sister said natural birth is the best feeling at the end. I don't know if she meant orgasm or the adrenaline rush right before the baby is delivered.
This made me laugh because I was on the freeway and Dallas was being a shit in the back of my truck so I reached back to pop him in the mouth and I was driving so I missed and hardly got him. He goes 'YOU DIDNT GET ME, IT DIDNT HURT'.
Guess who pulled over on the freeway and whooped their smartass 5 yr old's ass? Yeah, that would be me. My mom was with me and she had her hand over her mouth trying so hard not to laugh when Dallas talked back. I was so pissed but I got him.
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It was more to back up her threats of calling the cops on him whenever he misbehaved. FTR my mom said no, bc a) craaaaaazy and b) the kid knew my uncle, why make him terrified of him?
FTR, I never got hit in my life and I had a healthy dose of respect/fear of my parents. I don't think smacking a kid is necessary to discipline them. My mom could raise an eyebrow at me and I STFU.
Actually, I got smacked once, but I was a teenager haha
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5 year old boys can be the biggest smart asses. They either learn then, later when it really gets them into trouble in school/with the law, or not at all (our society could do without those shitheads).
My sister loves being pregnant and giving birth.
Growing up, I never needed to be hit. The threat was enough.
I have always spanked my kids when they needed it. After they were a certain age, I felt they were too old for it but I dont have issues with people spanking their kid as long as they arent excessive and brutal about it. I have never beat my kids bloody.
Suzanne Knight (21) brutally raped and devoured 3 toddlers while on a meth binge before hanging herself Marky69: If those toddlers didnt want to be eaten then they shouldnt of looked so god damned delicious. RIP Suzanne
Yes. I am certifiable. I find it hilarious that I beat the shit out of my kid. As a matter of fact, I would beat the shit out of a strangers child. I hate kids, they all fucking suck, those little rat bastards.
When my children cry, I drink their tears. Fuck you.
You think you're better than The Cos?
And the children smile and look and me and say "Dear man....thank you for your kindness, and your wonderful attitude about this whole situation. But you don't understand....we can't sleep through the night without a good beating."
LULZ at the 'informer'. That is sooooo my youngest kid. My two oldest ones, when I remind them to take a shower, they turn the fucking thing on and then sit in their room and watch TV for like 15 minutes because they are 'waiting for the water to heat up'.
YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME?
All kids can be assholes and I sincerely believe in discipline. Im not raising my boys to be shitty men, Im raising them to be damn good men with promising futures and respect and success. As a mom, I take on anything to make these boys succeed.
Off topic a little here but I plan on my boys living with me until they are out of college, no matter how long it takes. Bodhi wants to be a pediatrician. Im willing to take on that college debt so he has good credit and a fresh start and be able to open a practice. I feel this way about all my boys and if it means I have to WHOOP their asses, then so be it.
My kids are gonna make serious dough and put me in a nice retirement home.
All of the baby girls I know self weaned well before two. I have lamented and feel immense guilt that I had no support and wasn't able to nurse Millie for as long as she needed. Avi is super attached and that is just his personality type, I don't know that it has anything to do with his gender.
Really? That's so strange. Adrien and I have sex 3 times a week, at least. More than both of my friends that have children that sleep independently. You just need to be creative time wise and make sure that you set time aside for it.
For me it's about what each child has needed. Millie was independent from the start. She needed her space to sleep and never needed much more than a couple cuddles and to be held during the day.
I am seriously eating my words right now because I always said I would never nurse Avi past one, and that it was weird and awkward, and then I got there and it wasn't. He sees a behavior therapist once a week and will see an occupational therapist starting next week for some minor sensory issues that he is working through. Nursing has given him immense comfort and has allowed him to feel secure enough to let me leave him with my mil or with Adrien, I'm so glad that I didn't stop at some arbitrary point set by myself before actually nursing for an extended amount of time.
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