It seems they had a long history of DV. Too bad he was a no show at their last court hearing for a protection order. On a similar note, a friend of my kids is in a similar type relationship and roughly a year ago he went to jail for 3 months. My husband put in a new back door, since he completely destroyed her door breaking in. He stole a bunch of stuff, credit cards and other weird stuff. They found SD cards up his butt in jail. The guy is insane and she swore over and over they were done. The day he got out of jail, she let him back in and he has been there ever since. I found he was following me on google plus. I don't even use google plus, but a friend wanted to web chat and that's when I found him following me and my kids. She was lying to everyone about him being back in her life and he has at least 70 google plus acounts that he talks to himself with. He posted a pic of a bloody knife with some crazy statement that made no sense, but he said he was going to put someone under the frost line. I called the mental health agency that was assisting him and alerted them to these accounts, then quit having contact with her. Yesterday I get this post on my facebook that she updated her status to traumatized, hurt and battered. I reached out to her. He is in jail again for DV against her. He stripped her nude and burned her clothes and held her captive in her house for several days. She says he sexually abused her as well as mentally and physically and violated her in ways she never dreamed. She says she is getting help through some woman's advocacy group and vows to be done with him. I've heard it before and can't trust her to protect herself. I encouraged her to take her mothers offer of moving in with mom. I'm not sure if I want to try to support her as its a waste of time if she allows him back.
But, I can see this happening in that relationship. Someone is going to die. He is being held without bond for now.
Here's an example of what he was posting last summer which prompted me to back the hell out of helping her.