Ever since this went to PMs, I'm Towelie.
Ever since this went to PMs, I'm Towelie.
Originally Posted by bowieluva
I was in the PM's, and I'm a Towelie myself, so it's all good.Ever since this went to PMs, I'm Towelie.
It kind of concerns me that some people are viewing a cam girl as "questionable" to be around a child in the first place. I mean, how many stories of abuse do we hear coming out about teachers, priests and boy scout leaders versus cam girls when it comes to being fit to be around kids?
Just sayin.
You can take those Fleets and shove them up your ass
oh shit.
But yea, this cam girl thing isn't a big deal. Some of you probably know one. It's not something you advertise.
Oh, I don't think she's questionable.
I just stick by the story that I think his judgment was.
All around, he really muddled his personal and professional life together in a way that I personally would not have done.
That's all.
How so? As far as I can tell, nobody in his professional life knew he had friends that were cam girls or a Twitter account dedicated to it. Seems to me that people are only just now finding out. Puzz was a patient of his and had no clue. With the exception of using his real name in that one Twitter account, I don't see how his personal and professional life ever got muddled.Oh, I don't think she's questionable.
I just stick by the story that I think his judgment was.
All around, he really muddled his personal and professional life together in a way that I personally would not have done.
That's all.
You can take those Fleets and shove them up your ass
By muddled, I mean that he made it very easy to discover the information should anyone choose to check him out in detail.
Posting the links all over his Twitter under a name easily tied to him?
Again, don't think he was a bad guy. Just think he wasn't an internet savvy guy, is all.
But how often do you do in depth investigation into your doctors? I research my plethora of doctors regularly but what I look for are reviews or malpractices. I don't honestly care about their personal lives, and twitter is personal. It is rare, as in I've never seen it, that a doctor has a professional twitter with worthwhile content. As a patient what other patients say matter. Trust.
I must be one of those rare/pathetic individuals that researches just about everyone.
My kids teachers, my doctors, etc.
I assume it has something to do with my personal life issues.
Again, that's just me.
Guess you missed the part about me researching
No, I didn't. I just should have clarified by saying "in depth", which means Twitter, etc.
That said, I'm taking my leave from this thread now. I'm certainly not adding anything pertinent any longer. I just seem to have derailed the whole thing and put myself into question.
Apologies, all.
Whoa. Wait. That's not what people are saying. You're input has been amazing. What have you the idea that you derailed it?No, I didn't. I just should have clarified by saying "in depth", which means Twitter, etc.
That said, I'm taking my leave from this thread now. I'm certainly not adding anything pertinent any longer. I just seem to have derailed the whole thing and put myself into question.
Apologies, all.
You can take those Fleets and shove them up your ass
you haven't derailed anything. miller is just a suspicious kind of girl.
i just think it's strange that this started out as happy smiley eye doctor is mysteriously dead. accusations that he is a sex pervert happen. information is provided that he is extraordinarily involved in sex hobbies, to the extent that he is an idiot about his online presence and actually does let his daughter hang with cam girls, and everyone here is still of the opinion that he is a happy smiley eye doctor.
we are all in agreement that he killed himself and don't know why. they information points to possibly his sexual proclivities being exposed (imo).
you guys all continue to condemn steveholt for what? hinting at information that is slowly being shown to be somewhat accurate?
i stand by my first assumption - that he was being inappropriate with his staff or others in his employ and it became too much and threatened his professional and private life. steveholt may be someone who feels wronged by him or is intimately involved with someone who was wronged by him. perhaps steveholt is embellishing on the truth because he/she is so angry.
you all remember that shit that recently happened to me with my co-worker. he was a married dude with several kids. he didn't have as much linkable shit on the internet as dr. yu does and yet you all knew he was a dumbass sex pervert because of the note he left me. i didn't blast that shit on the internet, except for here because i didn't want it to affect my job... do you honestly think it's impossible that dr. yu did that to one of his nurses?
ffs.
Last edited by animosity; 11-28-2014 at 10:38 AM.
Don't take your ball and go home. Miller comes off as a bitch sometimes.No, I didn't. I just should have clarified by saying "in depth", which means Twitter, etc.
That said, I'm taking my leave from this thread now. I'm certainly not adding anything pertinent any longer. I just seem to have derailed the whole thing and put myself into question.
Apologies, all.
HAHAHAHAHAHA I JUST CALLED MILLER A BITCH.
to add... i definitely thought about sending links and images to his wife, people on his face book and even his new job. even though that guy was fired, i felt the resolution was anti-climactic and wanted revenge for him making me feel like a filthy object. i'm just too lazy to go about destroying his life.
also, i know cam girls AND prostitutes AND porn actresses AND strippers in real life. it is all 'the sex industry' whether you want to believe it or not. some of them, i'd trust with my kid... some of them, not. the difference between me letting my kid hang out with them is that i'm not a client getting off on these girls, i'm a friend, who sees them as human.
i am sooooooo much nicer than you. hahaha.
triple post, jeah!
Oh for fucks sake.
I seriously think that if he had been inappropriate with one of his nurses that people would know. We have a guy that worked with him for over 7 years that would have some kind of clue that something happened if it had. You didn't blast your guy on the internet, but does NOBODY at your workplace think that nothing happened? He was there one day and gone the next.
I've worked in a professional office setting (law office) and I knew shit I didn't know about personally was going on. If someone had popped on here accusing one of the partners of being inappropriate, I would say...." Yeah. It's definitely possible. And I'm not surprised".
I just don't see people doing that in the aftermath of his death. Only one person. Who is acting self righteous and douchey. So... Ya know. I tend to believe what the other 99% are saying about him.
Having cam girls as your proxy sex life because you don't date is NOT the same as being a molester or sexual predator. Not by a long shot. Do I think it's possible that someone (possibly Steve Holt) didn't get what they wanted from the doctor and threatened to expose his cam girl hobby? Yep. And that Dylan thought that alone would be shaming enough to want to end it? Absolutely.
You can take those Fleets and shove them up your ass
I lurve miller tho.
I lurve miller tho.
You can take those Fleets and shove them up your ass
nobody at my work knows anything happened because i agreed to keep my mouth closed about it. then, they following week, he told everyone he knew about his great new full time job at amazon distribution center that he had gotten. everyone thinks he left because he got a great new job. they are all still friends with him on faceyspace.
if dr. yu paid off the girls he harassed, no doubt they would have had to sign a non-disclosure agreement and keep their mouths shut too. that's how settlements work.
Your boss knows about it. I'm talking co-workers. Like the one that came on here defending him. Like me being a co-worker at the law firm. People. Know.
You can take those Fleets and shove them up your ass
yes, my boss knows and the hr rep knows. none of my other co-workers do. neither my boss nor the hr rep would ever come out and say anything about it because that would rain fire down on the company.
it is very likely that if i posted something on the internet anonymously about that guy and my co-workers saw it, they would sign up to say that they didn't think it was possible and that they played golf with his kids and had a sunday dinner with his family once.
What the fuck is this thread about at this point
a dead doctor.
someone said he killed himself because he was sexually harassing his staff and molesting his doctor.
there is ample proof that he was a horny bastard and that he let cam girls watch his kid.
no one wants to believe that he killed himself because of sex stuff on account of some other poster showed up to say they knew him and he was a nice guy.
the end.
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