Originally Posted by
scheva01
ok, so here goes my "theory"...please note, I do not know the family, I'm just going off what I've read in articles, on the family's facebook pages, and a good ol hunch....but also first... Donna's facebook page has a shared link about being an OR/ER (operating room/emergency room) Nurse...I"m sure she's used to gruesome scenes, or things of the like....
The first thought that goes through my head is Munchousen (sp) syndrome...or something of the like. For those of you not familiar with this mental illness, it causes parents to make their children sick for the attention, and general other things. Donna's facebook page is littered with what seems to be subtle attention seeking posts, such as famous family members, or those who will be on tv, or are recieving some sort of attention, births, new business cards, it's all things where someone else would get attention.
I thnk she made her husband sick, causing her son to have some sort of mental issue. Sometimes even the sanest of people can have unthinkable mental issues when they are stressed beyond their personal limit, sometimes causing symptoms of schizophrenia, paranoia (they are NOT one in the same) etc. I think whether on purpose or accident, he was killed as a result of something she did.
I think she then set fire to the house. I don't think that was an accident. I think that forced her to have to live with her son, to get in a little closer to where she needed to be.
(I would like to throw in here at this point, someone very close to me was an adult, with a guardian due to mental illness, and I watched someone very very close to me during a 2 year paranoid schizophrenic break. I mention this, because Ramsey's facebook page, shows me not one single sign of a person with schozophrenia, or paranoia. If he was, he would not have his page on public, or have any public posts. He would be afraid "they" would see it. He would not have ever posted his telephone number, let alone as many times, as often as he did. He would worry "they" could track him this way....in fact, he wouldn't be posting on facebook at all, and would have deactivated his account, for fear again that "they" would know where he was posting from. This is clearly a timeframe showing during these periods, he was not paranoid. Also, if he was schizophrenic, or paranoid, he would not have allowed his mother to become his guardian. He would be worried about being stuck under her control, and her taking advantage of him. Schizophrenics, and I say this as someone who loves one of them with all my heart every day...are very typical in the sense that they are overly aware of things going on around them, for example, knowing color, make and model, and plate numbers to cars that "belong" in a neighborhood, as well as for those that do not. They hyper-see what the rest of us see, and they make connections in circumstances that we don't even realize.
Based on all the evidence I've seen so far, I don't think he was either. I'll give you that perhaps he had mental strain due to his father's death, but if he had the particular symptoms the article referenced, he would not under any circumstances told the above poster details about his life. He would have thought he was a spy, agent or "them" sent out to collect information on him. Paranoid schizophrenics are very very private people. They won't give you an ounce of information because they believe you will use it against them. Also his behavior would have alerted the above poster that something was not right with him. Generally speaking its difficult to miss most atypical behaviors...