Vent Here , about anything

[Angiebla]

He's always a turd!

Mines a turd about 15% of the time.

[Nic B]

Oh kids! My grandson asked me why my house was so small. lol. Little jerk.

[Angiebla]

I am watching my niece and nephew right now. Its 1 am. I got here at 3:30. My sister said she was going to a concert with older people, and would be home at 10:30.

[Bewitchingstorm]

I am watching my niece and nephew right now. Its 1 am. I got here at 3:30. My sister said she was going to a concert with older people, and would be home at 10:30.

What time did she end up getting home?

[Nic B]

What time did she end up getting home?

....never....

[Angiebla]

What time did she end up getting home?

1:30

[Angiebla]

nvm

[Angiebla]

So we use an app for communication for my job. Its constant vibrations. It doesnt stop. From when I go to bed to, like today, when it vibrated off my night stand and onto the floor where it was loud enough to wake me up.

Im walking in the spiderwebs.

[raisedbywolves]

Angie, I saw your post last night and was hoping someone else would chime in but since it's the weekend I figured it would be Monday.

As long as you keep playing the role, they will keep treating you that way. While we all want to have a good relationship with our parents and siblings, wanting doesn't make it so and sometimes you have to either decide that you are willing to accept the 'lesser' role in the family and swallow your hurt and be ok with it, or walk away (or walk away somewhat, there are varying degrees of insulating yourself).

If you choose to keep doing what you are doing and acting the same way with them, expect them to keep hurting you. It isn't nice, but sadly families are shitty in general and we don't live in a fairy tale where families treat each other well and equally.

[Angiebla]

Angie, I saw your post last night and was hoping someone else would chime in but since it's the weekend I figured it would be Monday.

As long as you keep playing the role, they will keep treating you that way. While we all want to have a good relationship with our parents and siblings, wanting doesn't make it so and sometimes you have to either decide that you are willing to accept the 'lesser' role in the family and swallow your hurt and be ok with it, or walk away (or walk away somewhat, there are varying degrees of insulating yourself).

If you choose to keep doing what you are doing and acting the same way with them, expect them to keep hurting you. It isn't nice, but sadly families are shitty in general and we don't live in a fairy tale where families treat each other well and equally.

I erased my post, because she did get me something.

But I still know my place, and I feel like I have accepted it. I think it stems from having a low self esteem and being a people pleaser.

My mom and sister have stronger personalities than me, but my sister has gotten better with her approach to me, since I have told her how I feel.

I just hold it in until I erupt.

[raisedbywolves]

I erased my post, because she did get me something.

But I still know my place, and I feel like I have accepted it. I think it stems from having a low self esteem and being a people pleaser.

My mom and sister have stronger personalities than me, but my sister has gotten better with her approach to me, since I have told her how I feel.

I just hold it in until I erupt.

I think it's good you told your sister how you feel.

And I know that you don't want to hear this from me, that's why I was hoping someone else would chime in.

I'm glad she got you something.

[Bewitchingstorm]

I erased my post, because she did get me something.

But I still know my place, and I feel like I have accepted it. I think it stems from having a low self esteem and being a people pleaser.

My mom and sister have stronger personalities than me, but my sister has gotten better with her approach to me, since I have told her how I feel.

I just hold it in until I erupt.

Sometimes holding it in until you get to the point that you erupt is unhealthy. You need to stand firm and not allow others to walk all over you...family or not...no one should treat you badly.

[Nic B]

nvm

I don't come here on weekends so wasn't able to see your post, but hopefully RBW helped with her words of wisdom :)

[Angiebla]

I think it's good you told your sister how you feel.

And I know that you don't want to hear this from me, that's why I was hoping someone else would chime in.

I'm glad she got you something.

No, I dont mind hearing it from you.

You speak the truth.

Sometimes holding it in until you get to the point that you erupt is unhealthy. You need to stand firm and not allow others to walk all over you...family or not...no one should treat you badly.

This happens in other aspects, work, with my husband, my son. Ive gotten better, I vent to people.

Its mostly the shelter, since we dont have the teens or college age kids doing the brunt of the work, because school, I have to clean a lot now. I have a bad back and knees. Thats why I dont work at a clinic pretty much. But I feel bad because we are going to lose another volunteer bc shes a teacher.

At the night shift, I do paperwork, medicate, organize meds and medical sheets. Someone else comes in and cleans the kittens. We have 5 litters.

I dont know how to completely change though, I know its very unhealthy. You are right.

I don't come here on weekends so wasn't able to see your post, but hopefully RBW helped with her words of wisdom :)

She did, she always gives good advice.

[curiouscat]

I went to the McDonald's drive-thru to get food for my kids. The employee taking my order was rude. I had ordered two six-piece nugget meals, but I changed it to four because, realistically, my kids just want the toy. The employee literally sighed before changing my order. She also added a sweet tea that I didn't ask for. She read me the total, and I told her I didn't ask for sweet tea. She never corrected it. I waited a few minutes to see if she'd come back on the speaker, but she never did. I drove off and went to a different McDonald's.

[Boston Babe 73]

I went to the McDonald's drive-thru to get food for my kids. The employee taking my order was rude. I had ordered two six-piece nugget meals, but I changed it to four because, realistically, my kids just want the toy. The employee literally sighed before changing my order. She also added a sweet tea that I didn't ask for. She read me the total, and I told her I didn't ask for sweet tea. She never corrected it. I waited a few minutes to see if she'd come back on the speaker, but she never did. I drove off and went to a different McDonald's.

I don't blame you. I get that food service sucks donkey dick to work, but that's not an excuse to be a dick to customers.

Now I want chicken nuggets. And a toy.

[Bewitchingstorm]

I went to the McDonald's drive-thru to get food for my kids. The employee taking my order was rude. I had ordered two six-piece nugget meals, but I changed it to four because, realistically, my kids just want the toy. The employee literally sighed before changing my order. She also added a sweet tea that I didn't ask for. She read me the total, and I told her I didn't ask for sweet tea. She never corrected it. I waited a few minutes to see if she'd come back on the speaker, but she never did. I drove off and went to a different McDonald's.

Good for you. I would have done the same.

[Nic B]

Does McDonald's still have dollar drinks? I remember that from years ago lol. I would always get a huge diet coke even though I would never finish it, just because it was a dollar

[curiouscat]

I don't blame you. I get that food service sucks donkey dick to work, but that's not an excuse to be a dick to customers.

Now I want chicken nuggets. And a toy.

They have Hello Kitty x Godzilla toys. Super cute!

Good for you. I would have done the same.

Thank you, I've only done it once before when a Moe's employee started talking bad about customers in general just because I pointed out that she forgot to include the guacamole and sour cream that my burrito was supposed to come with.

Does McDonald's still have dollar drinks? I remember that from years ago lol. I would always get a huge diet coke even though I would never finish it, just because it was a dollar

Not currently. I also enjoyed their $1 drinks. They need to bring them back!

[Nic B]

They have Hello Kitty x Godzilla toys. Super cute!



Thank you, I've only done it once before when a Moe's employee started talking bad about customers in general just because I pointed out that she forgot to include the guacamole and sour cream that my burrito was supposed to come with.



Not currently. I also enjoyed their $1 drinks. They need to bring them back!

It was the only thing that got me to even go there haha. That and the dollar menu was great - mcdoubles and mcchickens. Not a fan of their chicken but my kids loved it and I could feed them for cheap.

[marshmallow]

Oh kids! My grandson asked me why my house was so small. lol. Little jerk.

tell him you like being cozy.

[marshmallow]

I don't blame you. I get that food service sucks donkey dick to work, but that's not an excuse to be a dick to customers.

Now I want chicken nuggets. And a toy.

I'm addicted to their chicken nuggets. They are not good for me and I do not care. They used to have a sweet chili dipping sauce that I should have hoarded or tried to replicate at home. If they offered it again I'd go all mcrib crazy on them!

[raisedbywolves]

I'm addicted to their chicken nuggets. They are not good for me and I do not care. They used to have a sweet chili dipping sauce that I should have hoarded or tried to replicate at home. If they offered it again I'd go all mcrib crazy on them!

https://topsecretrecipes.com/mcdonal...at-recipe.html Try this

[Nic B]

I'm addicted to their chicken nuggets. They are not good for me and I do not care. They used to have a sweet chili dipping sauce that I should have hoarded or tried to replicate at home. If they offered it again I'd go all mcrib crazy on them!

Their fries are good - usually. It can be hit or miss. But something about their ketchup packets....it's especially good ketchup! (and I LOVE me some ketchup).