New members, introduce yourselves here...

[Miller22]

I was good friends with her. We went to the same church congregation and I slept many weekends at her house. She is the first real dead person I've seen. And you are right, it was so sudden and it hit everyone hard. I will never forget the last words she will ever say to me, and it was just a irrelevant phone conversation. I hate talking on the phone, so it was short and to the point. But that's all there is now.

No. My parents do not know and because of some of the erotic feelings I have about it, I'm afraid or even ashamed to go to them. When she first died our minister talked to us teens about it as far as the comforting and dealing with the loss.

I would say talk to your minister. He will hold your confidence and he won't judge you. Whatever you tell him he's likely heard before, or of before, and if he hasn't he certainly isn't going to judge you. Not even about the erotic feelings you're expressing.

[cutiepuff]

I would say talk to your minister. He will hold your confidence and he won't judge you. Whatever you tell him he's likely heard before, or of before, and if he hasn't he certainly isn't going to judge you. Not even about the erotic feelings you're expressing.

Hehe I don't think he has heard this before. I have talked with a good person here, and we have discussed it and I feel a lot better about it. I've vented my fears and she is a good listener and helped me understand the process and it's nothing to fear. Since I won't even be aware of it anyways. I would have no problems talking with my minister if it was just dealing with her loss. Sometimes a stranger is better than a friend in this case. Now I see it, as I lost a friend, but I also gained one. Thanks for your concern. I realy am fine, just a little anxiety of my own mortality

[Boston Babe 73]

Lmao! I LOVE your sig

[*crickets*]

i hope you are right, i am confused about it myself. but the pictures i saw were people during and after autopsies which she had done to her, and they were pretty mutilated. before i joined i happened onto a thread here which had several people who work in morgues and mortuaries answering questions, i'm hoping to get some of the questions i have answered. and some of them are bizar and creepy, but they are the best to ask since they work in those areas.

Talk to morbidT, she is a member here who has participated in real-life autopsies and could answer a lot of your questions.

[thelovelydead]

hello. you guys and gals have a interesting forum. Amanda, dont let these people pick on you to much, ive been interested in death since i was around your age too. sorry about your loss. Is she listed on here?

[Shins]

hello. you guys and gals have a interesting forum. Amanda, dont let these people pick on you to much, ive been interested in death since i was around your age too. sorry about your loss. Is she listed on here?

That's always a great add-in for a first post.

[Boston Babe 73]

Wait, wha? Where was anyone picking on Cutie?

[thelovelydead]

seriously its just tongue and cheek as in haha

[Miller22]

seriously its just tongue and cheek as in haha

[cutiepuff]

Hehe I won't :). No she isn't listed here , but I did submit her death. Other than her obituary, I haven't found any news about her.

[Shins]

seriously its just tongue and cheek as in haha

You probably shouldn't crack jokes against an entire website within your very first post. That's called "bad form".

[thelovelydead]

my bad , i apologize if it was a little much for you. i was just trying to break the ice.

[cutiepuff]

Hey guys, could you please stop bickering over such a trivial comment. Even I can see it was meant as a innocent gesture.
Its not nice, and as senior members you should be setting the example. Not ganging up and showing him how to be a troll. I hate conflict espeacialy when it involves me.

Thank you :)

[Miller22]

Hey guys, could you please stop bickering over such a trivial comment. Even I can see it was meant as a innocent gesture.
Its not nice, and as senior members you should be setting the example. Not ganging up and showing him how to be a troll. I hate conflict espeacialy when it involves me.

Thank you :)

That was adorable!

[Seraphim]

Hey guys, could you please stop bickering over such a trivial comment. Even I can see it was meant as a innocent gesture.
Its not nice, and as senior members you should be setting the example. Not ganging up and showing him how to be a troll. I hate conflict espeacialy when it involves me.

Thank you :)

[thelovelydead]

will do. and i do apologize if it was offensive, it wasnt meant to be.

[M Joy]

[Boston Babe 73]

will do. and i do apologize if it was offensive, it wasnt meant to be.

No worries. Recent events have made people here a bit on edge with new people posing as old people who caused trouble so it was a red flag. Welcome to MDS!

[animosity]

No worries. Recent events have made people here a bit on edge with new people posing as old people who caused trouble so it was a red flag. Welcome to MDS!

strike that, reverse it...

old people posting as new people. possibly an inappropriately timed comment. probably through no fault of your own, lovely. emphasis on probably.

[thelovelydead]

seems to be the echo in forums these days. ive gotta work extra hard to get people to accept me. i like to be part of the community, not just a lurker in the forums i reside in. there are not to many communities that dwell in the common intrests of death. thanks for the welcome.

[Boston Babe 73]

strike that, reverse it...

old people posting as new people. possibly an inappropriately timed comment. probably through no fault of your own, lovely. emphasis on probably.

I work too hard. It's affecting my brain. You're right lol. Oops.

[M Joy]

[animosity]

seems to be the echo in forums these days. ive gotta work extra hard to get people to accept me. i like to be part of the community, not just a lurker in the forums i reside in. there are not to many communities that dwell in the common intrests of death. thanks for the welcome.

hahaha. just try your hardest not to take anything personally. we like to fuck around for fun a bit but it's not until you flip out about it that we attack. it's best to avoid sarcasm until we have seen a few posts and know your style of humor. also, don't be a crazy person.

just some tips... for anyone who is signing up!

also, here's a good time and place to re-post the forum rules... http://mydeathspace.com/vb/showthrea...20-Forum-Rules

[Shins]

Hey guys, could you please stop bickering over such a trivial comment. Even I can see it was meant as a innocent gesture.
Its not nice, and as senior members you should be setting the example. Not ganging up and showing him how to be a troll. I hate conflict espeacialy when it involves me.

Thank you :)

here we go again.

[strmmrgrrl]

here we go again.

You leave the youngling alone!