
Originally Posted by
AgathaAppleswine
It does bother me that she has said all that. At the same time, it is so important for her to be able to say this. And what I mean is this: abused women don't always tell people. I didn't tell people about my abuse. Not at first, and then I only told my best friend and my mother. There were never police reports. If I had ever tried to defend myself, and ended up killing him, there would be next to no proof. So it would have been vital for me to be able to say, "Yes, he abused me. Yes, he wanted to make a sex slave out of me. Yes, he enjoyed humiliating me. Yes, he burned me".
I shouldn't say that there wouldn't have been evidence (one look at the porn on his hard drive would have proven his obession with humiliating sex play), but even so...to be able to say it would have been important in defending myself. There are many, many women out there who never report abuse, and never talk about it. I want them to be able to make "unsubstantiated" claims as well.
Jodi is making a mockery of real abuse. But it is vital to every other woman out there that yes, she be allowed to say these things. It makes it easier to pooh-pooh her story because there is NO evidence. Anywhere. Like I said, my ex's computer would have been a testament to what kind of activities he enjoyed (non-consensual, heavy-bondage, humiliating sex play). But Travis has nothing; little to no porn, nothing to link him to child porn, just...nothing.
This brings to mind something, and I've wondered about this for a while now. Is there anyone besides Travis's friends who have noticed weird things about Jodi? I mean, to some extent, I don't know how much of what they say can be 100% trusted. They hate Jodi, so I don't know if a lot of what they say is accurate -- not that they are lying, but how much of their perception of Jodi has changed since she's been arrested? So how much more have they built up the stories in their minds about her actions? I mean no disrespect. It's just natural to really, really blow things up, or make them seem worse when you hate someone.
Are there people out there who have dealt with her who know her to be honest? Are there people out there who know her to be a liar? Where are Jodi's friends? Why was there just the one ex-boyfriend whom she shared the abuse with? Why doesn't she seem to have girlfriends?