
Originally Posted by
bete noire
How could you hurt someone you love in any way and then go on to rest peacefully?
About a week or two ago I stabbed my bf in the eye on accident with my finger (I had went to poke him in the forehead, jokingly. I missed)! Iit wasn't just any old eye poke either.. my finger went almost 2" in at least (seemed ALL the way to me!!), between his eyeball and the part closest to his nose(?), some fancy name I cant recall. *** Cut to 10 min later when he finally stood up, blood streaming out his eye and all down his face... it was TERRIFYING to see something I had done caused that to someone I love! I have bad dreams about it and not slept right since. How on Earth could you butcher someone you "love" and feel NOTHING!? Just carry on like everything is fine, and sleep like a baby!!??
*** Wanted to add this, also. For the people who still think someone so small couldn't overcome someone so large lemme give a little perspective on that, not the same exact scenario, but a kinda similar one. My other half is 6'4" and weighs a good 250lbs... I'm 5'4" (on a good day, lol) and weigh about 115. The poke to the eye caught him completely off guard (much like the knife wound/gun shot wound surely would have) and he dropped, like a ton of bricks, unable to catch his breath, and didn't move for a good ten minutes... not even to roll over and lemme see his dang eye. He just went completely limp (with shock, I think?) and curled into the fetal position cupping his head. I could have killed him 5x over, after that, if that had been my intention. I can clearly see how she could have gotten enough control of the situation to inflict so much damage, at least initially, if she had struck first and left him in shock and disbelief like that.
As for the dragging part, I had to drag said 6'4" 250lb bf upright (so that I get a look at his eye) and then that same very uncooperative bf outside to our truck to get him to the hospital. it was hard, and I hope I never have to drag him anywhere like that again, but it IS possible. I have 100% faith that if he were, god forbid, wet and naked and bleeding all over that I could drag him down a tile hallway. Not easily, but not as hard as some people would like to think, either. Maybe he will let me experiment, lol, I think I am gonna ask him =)