Jodi Ann Arias shot and stabbed her ex-boyfriend Travis Alexander to death

[MadameX]

Say wha?? I just can't believe there are "experts" on Dr. Drew that remotely think this bitch was abused! I feel like I'm losin' it, yelling at the laptop and TV and shit all day. :) AND, in this crazy ass story of Jodi's, we are still a decade away from Travis's death and have to deal with the big ass cherry on top that is Nurmi. Jayyyysssuuusss!!!

There was an "expert" on Nancy Grace who brought up her choice of words when she was asked how it made her feel that her own mother was beating her at age 7. She said, "Betrayed."

The lady said that's totally uncharacteristic of what children say when they're really abused. They say they feel like a bad person.

As someone with a narcissistic mother who took their fare share of mental abuse as a child--I totally agree with what she said. Children feel like there's something wrong with them--they don't feel betrayed.

I think this is the root of her problem. Everyone "betrays" poor Jodi. In her mind, she's been a victim her whole life. It reminds me of Casey freaking out in jail and saying how her whole life was taken from her.

[beli]

jodi hasn't even gotten to her 20's - i think we will be lucky if martinez gets to start by wed

[TulsaTime]

So sorry you had to deal with that, and you're absolutely right.

Knowing what Travis and his brothers and sisters endured when they were little, it's particularly disgusting to me that her 3rd version of her story about Travis's death is self- defense and abuse from and by him (after not being there, then ninjas...blank stare.)

[animosity]

for those of you confused about why jodi is such a jerk, here's some info on her early love life.



jodi went on the zipper with a vampire and developed a crush. they dated for a while but she split when he started talking about making her his 'forever girl'. i would too. forever is a very long time for a vampire.

the costa rican she met when she went there to study spanish in high school. he was the oldest son of the host family who *ironically* - jodi's word, not mine - was also named arias. he was her first love, who gave her a promise ring and started talking about moving her to costa rica to have babies. she didn't like that idea very much and broke it off. plus, he was jealous and posessive. oh, and also, she was planning to leave home and needed a place to live that wasn't costa rica.

she called vampire bobby to flirt her way into his home, since her mom had threatened to ground her until she was 18 for sneaking out. she packed her bags under the cover of night and prepared to leave but her mom woke up before she could grab the cat. she pretended to be asleep on the couch but eventually she got up, and just went to school. at some point she made it to the vampires house. it was gross so she went back home to get cleaning supplies to clean up the kitchen and the bathroom.

vampire bobby was spending all his time wacking off on the party line and writing dirty emails to some dumb broad. jodi found out by reading his private emails. she was jealous and confronted him, but he didn't give a shit. he had her 'in the bag'. once he found her playing swords with matt though, he threatened to kill her and her family so she left.

i'm pretty sure at some point the vampire showed up at her work with puppy dog eyes and then victor from costa rica came out to help her and they ended up renting a motel room and engaged in all sorts of sexual deviance, including golden showers, cleavland steamers and a whole lot of double penetration. then they both spit in her mouth and left her alone and crying somewhere in san francisco's tenderlion district. she had to pay for the room.

oops! i got side tracked. this post may or may not include some elements of truth.

[TheRaven]

Okay, this is way late but OMG!! That is WAY too much of a coincidence! It HAS to be the guy!

Somebody needs to tell Martinez about this and get him on the stand!

Run the pic thru google image search and it will come up everywhere that its posted on the Web.

[Msmichie]

There was an "expert" on Nancy Grace who brought up her choice of words when she was asked how it made her feel that her own mother was beating her at age 7. She said, "Betrayed."

The lady said that's totally uncharacteristic of what children say when they're really abused. They say they feel like a bad person.

As someone with a narcissistic mother who took their fare share of mental abuse as a child--I totally agree with what she said. Children feel like there's something wrong with them--they don't feel betrayed.

I think this is the root of her problem. Everyone "betrays" poor Jodi. In her mind, she's been a victim her whole life. It reminds me of Casey freaking out in jail and saying how her whole life was taken from her.

You nailed this completely. Everyone in Jodi's life was at fault. They beat her, they didn't treat her right, they abused her, they cheated on her... it's all everyone else. It's certainly not her. She is the most pathetic person I have ever seen. I would NOT have liked her if I had met her. It's sad that Travis didn't see her the way we do.

I don't know how his family hasn't jumped over the prosecution's table and ripped her damn head off. I read that Tanisha is now a Mormon and maybe that is helping her deal with this trial. I feel so very bad for them having to sit there and listen to the venom coming out of Jodi's mouth.

I can't wait for Martinez to pounce and tear Jodi a new hole.. then she can be a 4 hole wonder.

[MadameX]

oops! i got side tracked. this post may or may not include some elements of truth.

Sorta like Jodi's testimony.

Bazinga!

[DixieChic]

It was very boring and I don't think it's getting her anywhere. I don't know WTF they are doing.

Couldn't agree with you more. Everything is backfiring on them. This is doing nothing but buying her time. It is insane.

If I learn when she gets her period I am going to throw a brick at my f'n tv!! Swear to God.

[animosity]

You nailed this completely. Everyone in Jodi's life was at fault. They beat her, they didn't treat her right, they abused her, they cheated on her... it's all everyone else. It's certainly not her. She is the most pathetic person I have ever seen. I would NOT have liked her if I had met her. It's sad that Travis didn't see her the way we do.

I don't know how his family hasn't jumped over the prosecution's table and ripped her damn head off. I read that Tanisha is now a Mormon and maybe that is helping her deal with this trial. I feel so very bad for them having to sit there and listen to the venom coming out of Jodi's mouth.

I can't wait for Martinez to pounce and tear Jodi a new hole.. then she can be a 4 hole wonder.

http://tampa-bay-sailing-blog.com/wp...iggity_goo.jpg

[animosity]

You nailed this completely. Everyone in Jodi's life was at fault. They beat her, they didn't treat her right, they abused her, they cheated on her... it's all everyone else. It's certainly not her. She is the most pathetic person I have ever seen. I would NOT have liked her if I had met her. It's sad that Travis didn't see her the way we do.

I don't know how his family hasn't jumped over the prosecution's table and ripped her damn head off. I read that Tanisha is now a Mormon and maybe that is helping her deal with this trial. I feel so very bad for them having to sit there and listen to the venom coming out of Jodi's mouth.

I can't wait for Martinez to pounce and tear Jodi a new hole.. then she can be a 4 hole wonder.

duh... this is what i meant.

[Msmichie]

duh... this is what i meant.

OMG!! That is too funny.. thank you for sharing!!

[simono]

Say wha?? I just can't believe there are "experts" on Dr. Drew that remotely think this bitch was abused! I feel like I'm losin' it, yelling at the laptop and TV and shit all day. :) AND, in this crazy ass story of Jodi's, we are still a decade away from Travis's death and have to deal with the big ass cherry on top that is Nurmi. Jayyyysssuuusss!!!

How many times can Wurmi ask the same questions... Or drag the living hell out of something... He reminds me of, "and I quote" -A dirty unmade bed-

[nyx276]

Listening to her ramble on and on, lie after lie....ugh. I got to the 18th century goth part or whatever and had to stop. Foulness.

I did find it interesting though: she took the stand looking all meek and sad-like when she admitted to killing him and wanting to commit suicide herself, but that vanished as soon as she got an open forum and a captive audience to talk about herself. She's relaxed up there, practically smiling at some points. But as others have pointed out, her emotions don't meet her dead eyes. I've been fascinated by the subtle flashes of anger that cross her face from time to time in court. I think she's a hell of a lot more chaotic inside than what she expresses outside.

On that note, I wanted to say that the news stories characterizing her as having borderline personality disorder (BPD) seem wrong to me. A narcissistic personality and/or sociopathic personality seems more likely, and both are different from BPD. I worry about BPD being associated wrongly in the media with a person like Jodi. The stigma could cause real borderlines an even harder time as they try to achieve recovery, and speaking from my own experience, it's already a tough path to tread. http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2012/0...he-narcissist/

[Justice11]

for those of you confused about why jodi is such a jerk, here's some info on her early love life.



jodi went on the zipper with a vampire and developed a crush. they dated for a while but she split when he started talking about making her his 'forever girl'. i would too. forever is a very long time for a vampire.

the costa rican she met when she went there to study spanish in high school. he was the oldest son of the host family who *ironically* - jodi's word, not mine - was also named arias. he was her first love, who gave her a promise ring and started talking about moving her to costa rica to have babies. she didn't like that idea very much and broke it off. plus, he was jealous and posessive. oh, and also, she was planning to leave home and needed a place to live that wasn't costa rica.

she called vampire bobby to flirt her way into his home, since her mom had threatened to ground her until she was 18 for sneaking out. she packed her bags under the cover of night and prepared to leave but her mom woke up before she could grab the cat. she pretended to be asleep on the couch but eventually she got up, and just went to school. at some point she made it to the vampires house. it was gross so she went back home to get cleaning supplies to clean up the kitchen and the bathroom.

vampire bobby was spending all his time wacking off on the party line and writing dirty emails to some dumb broad. jodi found out by reading his private emails. she was jealous and confronted him, but he didn't give a shit. he had her 'in the bag'. once he found her playing swords with matt though, he threatened to kill her and her family so she left.

i'm pretty sure at some point the vampire showed up at her work with puppy dog eyes and then victor from costa rica came out to help her and they ended up renting a motel room and engaged in all sorts of sexual deviance, including golden showers, cleavland steamers and a whole lot of double penetration. then they both spit in her mouth and left her alone and crying somewhere in san francisco's tenderlion district. she had to pay for the room.

oops! i got side tracked. this post may or may not include some elements of truth.

Thank you! This clears it all up!

As clear as "butter!" (Psych reference.)

[Justice11]

You nailed this completely. Everyone in Jodi's life was at fault. They beat her, they didn't treat her right, they abused her, they cheated on her... it's all everyone else. It's certainly not her. She is the most pathetic person I have ever seen. I would NOT have liked her if I had met her. It's sad that Travis didn't see her the way we do.

I don't know how his family hasn't jumped over the prosecution's table and ripped her damn head off. I read that Tanisha is now a Mormon and maybe that is helping her deal with this trial. I feel so very bad for them having to sit there and listen to the venom coming out of Jodi's mouth.

I can't wait for Martinez to pounce and tear Jodi a new hole.. then she can be a 4 hole wonder.

Lol!

Sorta like Jodi's testimony.

Bazinga!

Nailed it!

Couldn't agree with you more. Everything is backfiring on them. This is doing nothing but buying her time. It is insane.

If I learn when she gets her period I am going to throw a brick at my f'n tv!! Swear to God.

duh... this is what i meant.

Hilarious!

[Justice11]

Um wait...doesn't Kristenella know where the "fourth" hole is.
Ouch!

[Msmichie]

Just looking around on the web and found this posted by one of Travis' friends. (This is why I don't think he is shit. Most people would want it known what they did, but not Travis, he just wanted you to "Pay it Forward:

About 6 months ago, a group of us went to Applebee's (I know, I don't like that place either) at aroung 10pm one night. I invited Travis, and he showed up in a fancy suit. People order food or milkshakes. I noticed Travis leave toward the restroom, but he didn't get there. He snuck around the bar and found the waiter. I knew that he was picking up the table's tab. Eventually the server came over and told us to have a good night. Everyone was surprised and assumed the restaurant had just comped us or something. I didn't say a word. No one else saw him do it besides me. I didn’t expose his kind act to everyone else. I texted Travis later to express my sincere thanks for the food he had just provided for me. After expressing some disappointment that I had seen him (he wanted it to truly be secret), he told me one thing: "PAY IT FORWARD, BROTHER."

The natural man would say, you can pay me back another day. Not him. Pay it forward means, “Do something good to someone else.” See how inherently different it was?

http://mort-report.blogspot.com/2008...rt-2-of-3.html

I did not post the whole thing, but that part really stood out to me.

[phantompoet]

vampire hunters and bondage? It's like a really bad 50 shades of twilight fan fiction the defense is trying to pull here

[nerdmiga]

Holy shit. I should just quit my job. Has prosecution cross-examined? I get that Jodi's all fake suicidal and horribly abused. What else has happened?

[Harlette]

[TulsaTime]

I agree about the "good" in Travis...he obviously struggled with his shit as we all do, but the blogs he wrote truly resonated with me. He just seemed wise beyond his years in those. :( :(

By the way, I was scrolling back in the thread trying to find something, and I got to re-reading the posts...This sounds so awful in light of the circumstances, but I don't think some of you people realize how fucking hilarious you are. I keep giggling at my phone at some of our past posts (like when the whole anal thing was brought in..holy shit! If you ever need a good laugh, go re-read yourselves from back then. Truly funny stuff.) My husband just looked at me and asked if I was having an affair. :)

[CKINGJUSTICE]

OMG this is gonna make me laugh til I cry

[Justice11]

vampire hunters and bondage? It's like a really bad 50 shades of twilight fan fiction the defense is trying to pull here

Oh my goodness....that is a great comment right there!

Hahahaha
In all seriousness, I bet Travis' sisters would love to have a few minutes alone with Jodi. Can't say that I blame them one bit.

[Justice11]

I agree about the "good" in Travis...he obviously struggled with his shit as we all do, but the blogs he wrote truly resonated with me. He just seemed wise beyond his years in those. :( :(

By the way, I was scrolling back in the thread trying to find something, and I got to re-reading the posts...This sounds so awful in light of the circumstances, but I don't think some of you people realize how fucking hilarious you are. I keep giggling at my phone at some of our past posts (like when the whole anal thing was brought in..holy shit! If you ever need a good laugh, go re-read yourselves from back then. Truly funny stuff.) My husband just looked at me and asked if I was having an affair. :)

You're not kidding...a lot of stuff on this site has me honestly laughing out loud.
Funny about your husband's comment. :)

[Poppycock]

Link to her photography profile: http://www.myspace.com/jfineart

Blogspot: http://jodiarias.blogspot.com/

Her photography website: http://www.jfineart.com/

Her phone number is listed on the photo website. I'm guessing she won't be answering anytime soon.

Jfineart.com is someone else, Judy Sherman in DC. Back when the domain name was the defendant's, it had pictures of weddings that it appeared she shot, photo shoots of others and her siblings, ...she obviously lost the domain name and someone else took it. I wonder how that is working out for them? Maybe they thought it would bring traffic or they may have no idea who used to have it.