Yep, I agree with everyone here. She sounds like she is just using you and the best way to rid yourself of that type of person is to cut off all ties.
Yep, I agree with everyone here. She sounds like she is just using you and the best way to rid yourself of that type of person is to cut off all ties.
This is disturbing, so i apologize in advance, but I have no one i can talk to about this at the moment.
When I was a teenager, I had a friend who became addicted to heroin. He had a daughter who was just a baby at the time, and even though I was so young myself, I took a lot of responsibility for this girl. After tonight, I wish I had taken a lot more. She's 17 now, and just informed me that she's been a victim of sexual assault by multiple predators at least the age of 5. A couple of times right in front of her father who was nodded out on drugs at the time. I think back to the time I went to go pick her up because I had gotten a call from her uncle who was only 12 at the time asking me to come get her because his brother (the dad) and their mom were shooting up right in front of her. When I got there, their dealer was there and very aggressively grabbed me in a sexual manner. I tazed him, grabbed the little girl and left. Now I wonder if he was one of the predators while her father and grandmother sat there and waited for a fix. CPS failed that girl and now I feel like I did too. I knew that her life was rough and she bounced around from home to home, but I never knew those kinds of things happened to her. I feel sick. And I just want to find her dad and hurt him so badly. It's close to 4am and I can't sleep. I'm so angry for my girl. But I'm so proud of who she's become. She refuses to be controlled by her trauma and shes so amazingly smart and grounded. But I'm full of rage and I really want to hurt someone.
Completely understand the rage. Totally normal. I don't even know the girl and I want to rip the balls off the dealer and her Dad. Since it's in the past, all you can do is be there for her now. She seems like she has a good head on her shoulders and has worked through these issues. By reacting, you'd actually be moving her back a few steps. Better to let her know that you're there to help if she needs it.
The second part of this is that YOU AREN'T TO BLAME. You didn't fail her! You were her only ray of sunshine during that time. If it weren't for you, she may have been dead. Don't put that responsibility on yourself. CPS and her Family failed her. Not you.
Originally Posted by Nic B
You can take those Fleets and shove them up your ass
What Boston said
I'm so happy she can confide in you. It's not your fault. Not even a little. She is lucky to have you in her life. ♡
This broke my heartI'm so sorry to you and her.... You're an angel for her walking here on earth
My husband decided to take part in the stupid Progene research that's being advertised on the radio. He didn't do his survey on time and now they've charged us $199.90!!! I AM SO FUCKING MAD!!! I AM FUCKING FURIOUS!!! I'M SO FUCKING GLAD THAT WE HAVE OODLES OF MONEY TO WASTE ON STUPID SHIT! WE DON'T NEED TO PAY OUR BILLS! WE HAVE OODLES OF MONEY!
I told that fucking asshole to not participate, because it's a trick, they just want money! BUT NO! "It'll be okay. I can do it. It won't cost us anything." And now look. $199.90 fucking flushed down the toilet!
Sorry!
I didn't even know what the Progene research was. It seems your husband wasn't the only one that fell for that scam. even if he did do the survey on time they still would have charged.
https://www.pissedconsumer.com/progene/RT-F.html
Can't you fight the charge with your credit card/bank? I would.
My son's father's girlfriend has been calling me from spoofed numbers every single day for the past two fucking weeks. Between the hours of 11pm-3am. This bitch. UGH. I'm not a violent person but I want to claw her eyes out and strangle her with her cheap ass hair extensions.
She really needs to get a life.
"Theoretical physics can prove that an elephant can hang from a cliff with its tail tied to a daisy. But use your eyes, your common sense".... JIM GARRISON
How do you call from a spoof number? Is there an app for this so I can see if somebody I know has it on their phone and if they've been doing it to me?
Gooble goble gooble goble one of us one of us. t(-_-)t
For real. But this is also the same bitch who broke into his house at 3am and threw me into a wall when I was 4 months pregnant (there was a me-sized hole in the drywall) AND LAUGHED ABOUT IT so I'm sure she'll keep doing it until it's no longer entertaining because she is trash.
There are apps and websites people use to spoof numbers but I don't know if there's a way to tell if someone has been using them to call you. I only know it's her because she leaves me shitty voicemails and I'd recognize her nails-on-a-chalkboard voice in a crowd of 1 million people.
Can you put your phone on silent, and use an alarm clock if you need one?
I'm trying to remember shit I learned from my evil friend as a teenager...I think you can dial *67 and put in whatever number you want to show up on the caller ID in. Telemarketers have been doing that recently, and I answer bc it shows up as a local number. I *think* there's a way to block those calls. I think maybe dialing *82 makes that possible? Or it may stop people callng from a private number.
The shitty thing is I would block one number, and they would keep calling from several different fake numbers. I just blocked them all and they stopped.
Is this person an adult? I don't think I did that shit past the age of 17.
"The love for all living creatures is the most noble attribute of man" -Charles Darwin
Yeah I've been keeping my phone on silent at night even though I hate doing that since my brother works overnight, but I had to do it because my kid was getting no sleep because of this asshole.
And yes, she's an adult. She is 25.
I am not sure what model phone you have, but I have a Samsung Galaxy S5 and it has a feature on it called do not disturb, and if I turn that on only the people in my contact list can call me. I am sure Apply has something similar, maybe you could do that and you wouldn't have to have it completely silent?
Yeah, or on some phones you can make the default ringtone "silent" then give people you want to hear from their own sound...
On my iPhone I created a favorites list. When I go to bed, I set it so only those on my favorites list can call me
I'm sure I can get one of these methods to work for me. Thanks everyone.
Have considered filing a complaint? You can file one with the phone company. There has to be a way to track the call. This woman sounds very dangerous.
"Theoretical physics can prove that an elephant can hang from a cliff with its tail tied to a daisy. But use your eyes, your common sense".... JIM GARRISON
Not too sound too dramatic, but yeah, I'm pretty terrified of her to be honest. She's been arrested twice because of things she's done to me but she doesn't care at all. I don't talk to her or my son's father (and haven't for nearly 9 months now) but she won't quit. I would have to write a lengthy novel to tell you about the insanity she has rained down on me for no reason at all other than jealousy i guess?
She sounds crazy like that chick who went into the funeral home and cut off pieces of her bf's old girlfriend.
"Theoretical physics can prove that an elephant can hang from a cliff with its tail tied to a daisy. But use your eyes, your common sense".... JIM GARRISON
My church's young women's group is having a Christmas party this Thursday night. I sent a text to our group chat asking for a ride. My car keeps having problems. I guess they don't want me there since no one has responded. F them!
Fucking clients that INSIST on us still walking their dogs even if they're home sick thereby making me sick. So now I have to deal with working a heavy holiday schedule, getting the client gifts and cards dealt with and keeping up on my housework WHILE dying with the flu. It's nice that they get sick days. WE DON'T.
You can take those Fleets and shove them up your ass
I just want to give a big fuck you shout out to Welch's for no longer selling the blueberry grape sparkling juice. I look forward to that great shit every holiday season. Fucking 2016, man I can't even have the drinks I want.
My fucking family has tracked me down and is slamming me with emails and FB messages because my father is supposedly dying. I have all the main people blocked, so now they are using distant people in the family. My worthless murdering fuck of a brother apparently now has a fiance, and she sent me a message telling me that "I don't know what happened, but you need to get over it".
I am so mad that I can't fucking see straight. Why can't they leave me the fuck alone? I haven't spoken with them in at least 4+ years (some not in over a decade). They have been dead to me for a long time. Why can't they get that?! OMG, we are not the Brady Bunch, and I don't care if my dad is dying. Stay away from me!
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