From a LJ entry -

One of my friends shot himself to death a month ago, so if we could all refrain from jokingly threatening suicide at me for a little while, especially on my goddamn birthday when I do not fucking need to be reminded of who I am not going to be seeing when my friends take me to lunch on Saturday, that would be cool.

It's called tact, people. You don't joke about gimps to somebody who just lost a leg, and you don't joke about killing yourself over a fucking facebook picture when suicide is a fresh reality, ok? Calvin is dead and no, that's not ok yet, and I can't believe you just fucking did that.