Online Dating...

[Nic B]

See DZ? You have a whole host of Women here to guide you in the mysterious ways that we tend to work. Use that to your advantage!

Yeah, it's a sad fact that most women just naturally believe that they aren't valued unless they offer sex or make themselves available for it. It's even subconscious in most cases because finding a Man where it's not the top priority is SUPER rare. We also feel like anything nice that men do for us is leading up to them wanting it from us. You're literally a unicorn so if women push for it, it's probably because that's all they have ever known to do to keep the attention of someone they really like. Of course there are very sexual women too, but I think if you talk to her about it and let her know that eventually it would be great to share that with her but that it's not your priority you'll be happily surprised. Be careful not to make it seem like she doesn't turn you on though. Women also relate men wanting them to how attractive they are in general. Basically, "you are gorgeous and if I was just looking for a fling I'd be all over you. However, I really like you as a person and the fun we have together and since I'm looking for something more long term I'd like to hold off on it and enjoy just being together for a while. I don't want sex to get in the way of that right now. The build up will be amazing and this way we will learn so much more about each other which will make it even better when we do decide to share that together".

BOOM.

No wonder men have such issues trying to figure out women

[Boston Babe 73]

No wonder men have such issues trying to figure out women

In our defense, it's not our fault. Society has molded us this way. Sex sells and it's in 99.9% of our advertising. We basically had it force fed to us that we're not worth anything and nobody will want us unless we're skinny, gorgeous, half naked and sexually available.

[Bewitchingstorm]

In our defense, it's not our fault. Society has molded us this way. Sex sells and it's in 99.9% of our advertising. We basically had it force fed to us that we're not worth anything and nobody will want us unless we're skinny, gorgeous, half naked and sexually available.

This.

[Nic B]

In our defense, it's not our fault. Society has molded us this way. Sex sells and it's in 99.9% of our advertising. We basically had it force fed to us that we're not worth anything and nobody will want us unless we're skinny, gorgeous, half naked and sexually available.

Oh I agree. I just meant with the whole "do this...but make sure not to do that too much or do this..." lol it was confusing. But so right!