oh, totally. i don't consider myself to be a hero, either. just saying that its not easy. but in cases like that couples, its different. they're not married, they're super young, and that is A LOT for a young chick to take on. having to deal with someone who has ptsd is bad enough, but with physical challenges like that, it really makes things harder. i don't think she's a hero, but she's a strong woman. i admire and respect that.