1. it's never fun to have disappointing sex.
2. it's never fun to feel grossed out after a drunken mistake.
3. diseases happen.
4. you're baring everything god gave you physically and emotionally - hopefully you're not just doing it because you're bored.
it's a goddamned connection with another person! it might as well be a person who appreciates that connection as much as you do.
hippies! everywhere is hippies!