The "Want" Thread

[bowieluva]

[quote author=yellowCake1 link=topic=14689.msg1384747#msg1384747 date=1252675444]
This is #1 on my Christmas wish list. I want it so  bad right now


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My uncle bought my mom the first box set. My brother and I might get her that one for Xmas.

[neenerneener]

[quote author=Cat Pajamas link=topic=14689.msg1385250#msg1385250 date=1252704482]
I want to be doing this.  It would probably help my stress levels.  But I can't.   

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[Tarren]

[quote author=yellowCake1 link=topic=14689.msg1385219#msg1385219 date=1252702936]
can I be your OH just for the holiday season? :|
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:lol:

You're married mister.

[the color nine]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tio5OvIqToc
http://mi-lab.org/projects/cristal/

[Vegemite Kid]

I want a decent nights sleep haha.

[Natasha_XO]

[quote author=Vegemite Kid link=topic=14689.msg1385733#msg1385733 date=1252769425]
I want a decent nights sleep haha.
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you'll get that if you're lucky in about a year or two.  :lol:

[Vegemite Kid]

[quote author=Natasha_XO link=topic=14689.msg1385734#msg1385734 date=1252769511]
you'll get that if you're lucky in about a year or two.   :lol:
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I was thinking the same thing haha.

[Natasha_XO]

[quote author=Vegemite Kid link=topic=14689.msg1385735#msg1385735 date=1252769575]
I was thinking the same thing haha.
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are you getting up like 30840284 times a night to go pee?  that's the worst. 

[Cat Pajamas]

[quote author=neener link=topic=14689.msg1385622#msg1385622 date=1252746305]

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I'm not gunnnnnaa, I just wannnnnaaaaa. Yeah, I'm whining a little.
At least I'm not waking up to pee 30840284 times a night.  Life could be much worse.

[okac]

[quote author=the color nine link=topic=14689.msg1385698#msg1385698 date=1252765804]
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tio5OvIqToc
http://mi-lab.org/projects/cristal/
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dude, bad-ass!

[gutsywoman]

My own place. 

And this.



Which I saw in Big Lots yesterday.

[x23]

Lame but...



:|

[neenerneener]

[quote author=x23 link=topic=14689.msg1386459#msg1386459 date=1252863543]
Lame but...



:|


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awww.  thats not lame. 

[x23]

[quote author=neener link=topic=14689.msg1386548#msg1386548 date=1252878841]
awww.  thats not lame. 
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Thankies Neener-going on four and a half years...still no ring 

[Chompin]

[quote author=x23 link=topic=14689.msg1386574#msg1386574 date=1252881163]
Thankies Neener-going on four and a half years...still no ring 
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That part might be lame...time to move on?

[Tarren]

[quote author=Chompin link=topic=14689.msg1386579#msg1386579 date=1252881823]
That part might be lame...time to move on?
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Why is it time to move on because he didn't propose?
I've been with my OH for 11 years and no ring. Does he have to propose to me because we've been together for a long time? Marriage is the last thing on my mind. No thanks.  :2smiley:

[Chompin]

[quote author=Tarren link=topic=14689.msg1386582#msg1386582 date=1252882060]
Why is it time to move on because he didn't propose?
I've been with my OH for 11 years and no ring. Does he have to propose to me because we've been together for a long time? Marriage is the last thing on my mind. No thanks.  :2smiley:
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Well haven't you two discussed this, and decided to not get married?

[Tarren]

[quote author=Chompin link=topic=14689.msg1386583#msg1386583 date=1252882136]
Well haven't you two discussed this, and decided to not get married?
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He asked me, I said it wasn't for me. He respects that and won't ask me again. I'm more than happy with this. We're as good as married anyway. The house is in both our names, as are our assets and wills.
I'm not interested in getting married, at all. My parents were married for almost 34 years before my mum died, so it's not a fear of having a bad experience that puts me off. I just don't see the point in doing it, for us.
We're quite happy as we are.  :2smiley:

[Chompin]

[quote author=Tarren link=topic=14689.msg1386589#msg1386589 date=1252882573]
He asked me, I said it wasn't for me. He respects that and won't ask me again. I'm more than happy with this. We're as good as married anyway. The house is in both our names, as are our assets and wills.
I'm not interested in getting married, at all. My parents were married for almost 34 years before my mum died, so it's not a fear of having a bad experience that puts me off. I just don't see the point in doing it, for us.
We're quite happy as we are.  :2smiley:
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Okay, good, great...but I think she wants that ring!!!  LOL

[Tarren]

[quote author=Chompin link=topic=14689.msg1386591#msg1386591 date=1252882715]
Okay, good, great...but I think she wants that ring!!!  LOL
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Hey, if it floats her boat that's cool.

I don't really see the point in buying a ring unless you intend to get married. I know quite a few people who got engaged and then split with their partner before getting married.
What's the point in buying a ring if the big day is way off?

[Chompin]

[quote author=Tarren link=topic=14689.msg1386595#msg1386595 date=1252882889]
Hey, if it floats her boat that's cool.

I don't really see the point in buying a ring unless you intend to get married. I know quite a few people who got engaged and then split with their partner before getting married.
What's the point in buying a ring if the big day is way off?
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Very true.  I don't get the psychology completely, being a guy, but if you are with a guy for a long time and he never asks you to marry him, I would think I would wonder why.  I mean I know marriage is not for everyone (you clearly are an example) but if I were a woman and it was something I wanted...well that is a long time to wait for something that might not happen.  Then again, I am not privy to her entire relationship.

[x23]

I don't just want the ring-bleh-a cheap plastic ring would make me happy,I just want to know he is as committed to me as I am to him. I never used to be the marrying type,but I've wanted it more as I've gotten older.And you're correct chompin, the fact that he knows it's what I want, makes me wonder why he hasn't asked me yet, that's why it bothers me. But I'm not gonna give him an ultimatum,that's lame, besides I want him to marry me cause he wants to, not cause if he doesn't I'll leave...

[Tarren]

[quote author=Chompin link=topic=14689.msg1386599#msg1386599 date=1252883097]
Very true.  I don't get the psychology completely, being a guy, but if you are with a guy for a long time and he never asks you to marry him, I would think I would wonder why.  I mean I know marriage is not for everyone (you clearly are an example) but if I were a woman and it was something I wanted...well that is a long time to wait for something that might not happen.  Then again, I am not privy to her entire relationship.
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If my OH had never asked to to marry him it wouldn't bother me, and I really mean that. Marriage isn't for me, it doesn't interest me and I don't need to do it to gain anything in my life. I have all I need. I have everything I want at this point in my life right now.
If I wanted it and he hadn't asked me I would ask him, I'm all for equal rights and opportunities and roles. Our relationship is just fine. I don't need a ring to confirm it, or a ceremony. But I understand why some people want that and that's fine too.  :-)

[Chompin]

[quote author=x23 link=topic=14689.msg1386601#msg1386601 date=1252883322]
I don't just want the ring-bleh-a cheap plastic ring would make me happy,I just want to know he is as committed to me as I am to him. I never used to be the marrying type,but I've wanted it more as I've gotten older.And you're correct chompin, the fact that he knows it's what I want, makes me wonder why he hasn't asked me yet, that's why it bothers me. But I'm not gonna give him an ultimatum,that's lame, besides I want him to marry me cause he wants to, not cause if he doesn't I'll leave...
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Yeah, that would not be good.  You say marry me or you leave, he decides to marry you and you start out your marriage on a bad foot.  He knows it is what you want, so maybe you just need to find out what he wants, what he plans.  As you said, you can't really put pressure on him, but maybe you need to move on?  Good luck with it all...

[x23]

[quote author=Chompin link=topic=14689.msg1386605#msg1386605 date=1252883503]
Yeah, that would not be good.  You say marry me or you leave, he decides to marry you and you start out your marriage on a bad foot.  He knows it is what you want, so maybe you just need to find out what he wants, what he plans.  As you said, you can't really put pressure on him, but maybe you need to move on?  Good luck with it all...
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Thanks man, yeah I'm not gonna get ahead of myself or make any rash decisions, I'm only 24, got plenty of time still xoxo