I completly agree. I went through a severe depression, but now im ready for the adventure. My life has gotten so monotonus and boring. Im over it. Thanks for the support!
I completly agree. I went through a severe depression, but now im ready for the adventure. My life has gotten so monotonus and boring. Im over it. Thanks for the support!
Shit, this sound like good news the way you tell it.Originally Posted by jessielee
I'm not working and haven't been for like 6 months or so. I've alwaysbeen a hard worker. Before i got married, i was never without a job. Not working is a double edged sword for me.
I like to work but only certain jobs but on the flip side, i like being at home. My anxiety has tripled so I'd rather be at home and away from everyone else.
The last four years I've taken care of people so it was super hard for me to work and take care of them at the same time.
Im the same way. My anxiety is really bad. I also have a really hard time working for someone I hate or have no respect for. Im not much of a "yes man". And I feel like if Im going to be working so hard that I dont get to see my kid, or come home too exhausted, She should have a cool million sittin in the bank.
My sleep cycle is soooo off that ever since Ive been married, it get all lazy about jobs if i dont like them. I just quit. I was never like that before. If I don't get enough sleep, I will call in. Im terrible.
My husband on the other hand, he works his ass off like crazy. If he is throwing up sick, he will still go to work and just throw up at work. He works in a mill and he's a supervisor so it's not like it's a huge deal. He generally stays away from everyone when he is so tho. I had to get it thru his head that it's not cool to go to work when you're sick and making everyone else sick.
Sucky part is that there is no replacement for him so he HAS to go in.
I was always that way with jobs. If i didnt like the job or the boss, i was just done. Then my daughter was born and my husband got sick, so i had to suck it up and deal. I was so unhappy the last 3 months, it was ridiculous. I wanted to quit SO many times. I would have if it werent for my kiddo. Responsibilities and all that. but my anxiety and depression were out of control. So many panic attacks. And i was going to bed at 8pm and finding it extremely difficult to wake up before 8am. Its going to be hard for the next couple of months, but when its over, im going to be alot happier. The town im moving to is 5 hours away from the rest of my family in louisiana. The only one ill be missing is my mom, but i think ive convinced her to move soon too.
I work for a company that does the distribution of adult dvd's and they have their own, well known magazine. I get more inquiries about where to see the films being made than anything else. Thankfully, we do not do that here. Not that it matters, as I still have some pretty graphic shit in my face all day long.
Most of the time, it's not too bad. From most commonly asked to uncommonly asked:
1) Where can I see the films being made?
2) How do I get in the movies?
3) What company is this?? giggle giggle
4) What are you wearing?/Guess what I am doing right now..
5) Random sick pervvy should be jailed question.
Wow Greens this is interesting. Never boring at work for you.
ron_nyc: I don't like the black ones much.
I try to make sure work is something that keeps me entertained. This particular job, it's entertaining alright.
i've talked to several guys masturbating working on the phones as long as i did. the first was a boy calling in about the SI swimsuit calendar that we distributed. after he said pervy things to me he called back and got the girl next to me and i overheard. we found out he'd called many times and had placed several orders already so i put a stop on all of it. one of the calendars got through and a few weeks later i got a call from a woman. i remembered the kids name (still do, actually) so i knew who she meant when she announced the calendar had come in the name of her thirteen year old son. yuck.
the last masturbator i got (and sold) was watching porn and i could hear it. somewhere during the conversation i told him he needed to turn it down and the ass made it louder. before he hung up he told me that he was sorry if his video made me uncomfortable. VOMIT. i should have hung up. i know it. but when you work in sales you're used to being bent over taking it in the ass without lube, so to speak.
not to pick on you, ron, but you made a comment a few weeks ago about how women should love it when men cat call them in public. if you were a woman you'd understand why we don't enjoy it. if you had to experience a tenth of the bullshit we endure, because (some) men think they're entitled to have access to us just because we're female, you'd get it. i guess that is part of why my tolerance for it is so high. i feel worse when i let them get under my skin. :stepsoffhersoapbox:
That's what it would take. Being invisible sucks. I'd kill to get attention like that.
Obviously I understand being mad about getting groped, but some guy saying "aw, beautiful...you should smile more" should not ruin your fucking day.
If most advances were made that nicely, we would be flattered. Not disgusted.
I actually fucking hate it when someone tells me to "smile". Fucking. Hate. It.
Dude, I went to that "hollaback" site, and bitches were complaining about that shit. My head hurt from rolling my eyes so much. Jeez, be a fucking grown up.If most advances were made that nicely, we would be flattered. Not disgusted.
And those complaints were right next to posts about flashings and gropings. Some bitches need to fucking relax. And I would like to hear from an older woman how they feel now that they're invisible. I net you miss that attention when it's gone.
Haha Jesus Christ.
where i work i have to deal with people saying shit to me all the time. the guys who offer to take the trash for me (i don't let them) are kind enough and not creepy. MOST are creepy as fuck and a lot of them try to touch me, grab my hand as i walk by or worse. honestly, if i just worked with women i wouldn't feel safe but because i work with a several big mean guys i feel safe at work.
its not the kind of attention you want. it isn't personal, it isn't flattering. you could be any girl walking by these guys just need someone to creep on.
twinz. people who smile all the time are also creeptastic.
Definitely. and I feel like it's so shitty and almost rude to walk up to someone and say "SMILE!", it's basically saying, well you look like shit. And who knows, their dog may have just died. Butt out asshole. I'll smile because I want to, not because some random demands it.
Yea, sounds like a nightmare.
that shit makes you look like a creep, ron.
I think it's douchy and annoying. God knows I don't do it, I never talk to anyone outside like that.
But boo fucking hoo over getting compliments. And I don't mean the "I wanna put my finger in your ass" stuff.
What does? I don't "holla" at chicks, but I eye roll over bullshit complaining.
Ugh. It's the Australian kids now. This is twice this week when normally they only call every other week. They will call back to back to back to act like we are EA Games and they have an issue. Last time I started getting angry with them and telling them to at least get creative if they are going to interrupt me working.
SO ANNOYING.
I honestly don't really mind it. I just smile or say thank you. Usually where I live the guys don't speak English well so I'll get a "Hey baby!" or some kissy sounds out their truck windows as they drive by. It's not like it makes my day or makes me feel better about myself but I don't feel offended. No one's ever said really nasty stuff to me so that's probably why.
I am generally a smile and nod reaction type of girl- but you need to know that females can get a compliment followed by way scarier shit.
Way back in the day I stopped to get gas after work (3-11 shift) on the way to my bfs. Creep gave the creepy smile and "you so beautiful" thing and when i just kind of smiled and said "thanks" , motherfucker blocked the door and fucking locked it and tried to kiss me. I should have kneed him in the nuts but I was a doormat back then so I just said my bf was meeting me, so he let me go.
As a female, there is an understanding that many times you are by nature an easier target. Makes the sweet compliment that comes first less palatable
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