The three times I've had roomates, 1 out of the 3 was awkwardOriginally Posted by PunkerDuckie
The three times I've had roomates, 1 out of the 3 was awkward
Are you leaving at the end of a lease? Sometimes people can get really pissy if the other roommate opts out early to go live with a b/f or g/f. Then again some people are just pissy.
Mr. Man is on a month to month with his roomie (who owns the house). They've lived together for like 4-5 years now. Just them, now me for the last 3 weeks (ok with her while we look for a place since my lease was up yadayada). Now she wants her BF to move in sooner than she was thinking before (with his kids), so bottom line is, she now wants us out so that he can move in and they can start their life together ( i get that ). They've been staying here anyways about a month. I don't shower here often or use many utilities, I shower at the gym or work or my parents house, I don't cook, and use no more electricity than he was already using. She just got the utility bills and is saying it's really really high- well of course it is, there's 3 kids here, and her man and I- before it was two people. I understand her kinda pushing us to find a place because he's moving in, but I feel awkward and shitty because she's kinda making it sound like i'm the reason her utilities are so high. She's not being mean about it, and I may be taking it wrong but I feel uncomfortable as fuck. My bf would be getting ousted regardless if I were here or not, so it puts him in a weird place too- (like what if we weren't already trying to move in together, where would he go?) I wasn't comfortable to begin with staying here because I didn't want to irritate her, and now it feels like I did even though I was trying not to. I'm chipping in for utilities, he's paying rent, I just hate feeling awkward. We're having a super hard time finding a rental here to begin with, and now I feel even more rushed because mentally i'm inconveniencing someone.
Well it sounds like she has just put it into your head that you are making the bills higher, probably to cover for the fact that she has her b/f & kids living there as well. Since it's her house she may just be pulling rank so she doesn't have to feel bad about basically pushing your b/f to move out sooner than expected. Just let it roll in one ear out the other, be pleasant, pay your part, find a new place, and don't let her make it a bad experience. Funny, one thing I learned in being in so many bands was that 9 out of 10 times when someone would leave they would start shit before hand so they would have a reason (or in their heads it made it easier) to leave and there was never a reason for the crap. So my two cents above is how I would handle it.
Are you sure your teeth aren't hurting from a sinus infection? It's pretty common. The pain is horrible. Your face doesn't have to be throbbing, either. Try a nasal lavage. You know, the nettie pot or saline solution bottle you can get at the corner drug store. Nothing was working for me earlier this year. I searched online for home remedies and found Hydrogen Peroxide. I get distilled water and mix a tad bit of the peroxide. It burns like a SOB, but it sure does work. You can do it up to 4 times a day. I do it twice a day. When things get better, don't stop the lavage all together. Start flushing with the distilled water. Sometimes you can find some kind of mixture at the corner drug store too. Even if you think it isn't a sinus infection, it is worth a shot! I feel for you!
This is true. I had terrible teeth pain and I did that and it really did help. They are still sensitive, but at least I can talk now without going owww!!
dumb things that really, really piss me off:
my mom spent $100 for my birthday on an electronic cigarette so i could quit smoking... the first week, i only supplemented the e-cig with 1 pack. great! i was previously smoking a pack per 2 days. huge accomplishment! my last actual cigarette was on friday after my final. i've gone 3 whole days without one, just using the e-cig!
today, i charge it up and try to get my morning puff on... broken! the fucking heating mech stopped working! i've had this thing for less than 2 weeks, have gone the longest ever without a smoke in 15 years and was completely ok with it... and then i had to go buy a pack today.
i felt like crying i was so disappointed. thank god i'm not addicted to heroin if this is how i face the challenge.
well, ok! but let's see what happens when i do...... this!
thank you anonymous karma giver!
well, ok! but let's see what happens when i do...... this!
oh, am i supposed to sign my karma for nonpreemies? oooops.
edit: dttam: season 4 of son's of anarchy isn't on netflix and trying to find a site to watch episode three is proving to be a challenge. now i'm gonna have to go clean to entertain myself.
Don't we have a thread on the Westboro idiots??
When random strangers come up to me and my baby and grab his hands!!! I have no idea where their dirty ass hands have been, they touch my baby's hands, and then he promptly puts them directly in his mouth. These people might as well stick their fingers right in his mouth and save the extra step. Grrrrrr.
I have a girlfriend bitching about that on FB right now. She is also talking about strangers asking to hold her baby. WTF!
ron_nyc: I don't like the black ones much.
apparently, this happened:
Westboro Church Protesters Confronted By Zombies
http://http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/h...ed-by-zombies/
well, ok! but let's see what happens when i do...... this!
The stupid thing is I am thinking we have mentions of them in like 5000 threads yet not one place where we can collect the fuckery.
I have something I want to post!!
make it work.
well, ok! but let's see what happens when i do...... this!
DO IT! Post away!The stupid thing is I am thinking we have mentions of them in like 5000 threads yet not one place where we can collect the fuckery.
I have something I want to post!!
DTTAM: Chipping nail polish. I mean....wtf?
I'll do whatever it takes to be the mistake you can't live without.
"Anal leverage" is how my brain processed that.
We sell those things, and have had a few people complain that they crap out within a few weeks. We've refunded quite a few. Take it back, maybe they'll refund it.
They also sell cheap disposable ones that are supposed to be like 2 packs' worth.
I'll do whatever it takes to be the mistake you can't live without.
Thanks girls. I do use a flush and a spray. I have pain in a tooth that had a root canal and on the opposite side I have a cavity. I had the root canal done right before I moved and the dentist ( I usually see his father) and I got into fisticuffs because of how he handled the situation. He refused to put a metal cap rather than a crown on the tooth and wanted to do that before the cavity. So I have basically a tooth with a buildup for a crown, because he wouldn't finish it and a cavity. I tried to have the dr who did the root canal do a crown for me but it was like 2300 and he was appalled at the build up my dentist did. I really wish I would have had the root canal guy do the build up and fix the cavity because now I wouldn't be in so much pain. .
Ew, tooth pain. I do not envy you!
DTTAM: I just turned my Lasko tower fan on after getting out of the shower like I always do. I headed down the hall to get a bottle of water and heard a loud slurping noise (like slurping the straw of an empty glass). I walked back into my room and smelled a horrible smell that was obviously coming from the fan. I had bent down in front of it to check. I unplugged it and threw it in the middle of my backyard. Sounds trashy, huh? There was dew on the ground and I didn't want it near my house at all if it was a fire hazard. I'll trash it in the morning. I walked back into my room after getting my water and flipped the wall switch to my ceiling fan and it just stopped spinning. Google tells me the capacitor is bad. So, I lost my tower fan and ceiling fan in a span of 5-10 minutes. I have slept with both for forever. Now I'm sad and hot, but I'm hotter than I am sad. Sucks.
Arrrgh it's 5:13am and I've been up all night. I am ready for dinner and it's time for breakfast. LMAO
I got assigned a new partner. He is a douche. 48 hours a week trapped in a vehicle with a douche is no fun.
Oh that blows. Do you get assigned new partners every so often or did you last one leave?
Last one left. Fucker. I actually got along with him. Now I have someone that thinks he's god's gift to the emergency medical services community.
Someone's gonna find him ductaped to a backboard in the ambulance bay at some point, with me and the rig nowhere in sight.
So we shouldn't quote this then?
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