Originally Posted by TheFavoriteDaughter
She deserves mom of the year award!But seriously, I would go for it. Since H is old enough to talk they'll be able to ask her questions, and I'm sure she doesn't like the situations her mother places her in. Just because she is the mother does not mean she will get anything, especially with her history.
My kidneys. Fuck you kidneys.
How fucking dare LA Times try and charge me for reading the blog. Bastards.
"About me" on a FaceBook profile from a man that cheated on his wife with her best friend and getting caught by his teenage daughter in bed with another woman.
"Pride, dignity and honor. If you betray yourself, you lose all three.
Deception, secrecy and lies really piss me off! Because there is no reason for any of it."
:shakes head:
That right there is a douchewaffle assclown of the highest order.
hyp-o-crite/ˈhipəˌkrit/
Noun: A person who indulges in hypocrisy.
someone at work took my awesome, glass, $25 water bottle. assholes.
That because Adrien was honest about his medical history for his new job they are making him jump through every fucking hoop. He had sleep apnea years ago and has since lost weight and doesn't suffer from it anymore. But because he hasn't done another sleep test they want him to bring in his machine to make sure he's been "compliant", but he hasn't been because he doesn't have apnea anymore and now he might not get this fucking amazing internship. UGIUJGHEWIFJWEIOFJEWOFJEWOI!!!! fuck.
Could you have his doctor write a note that says he doesn't have it anymore?
They would have to do a sleep test to verify it, and we don't have money for another sleep test and his pulmonologist no longer takes our insurance.
But like, wasn't there a doctor who deemed him sleep apnea-free? Or did he just stop having symptoms?
He just stopped having symptoms when he lost 30 pounds. He rarely snores anymore.
What's the point of bringing in the machine? To see if he's been using it?
Yes. This whole thing has been a fucking nightmare. They hired him and told him that he had to complete a physical that was not a big deal and then would start on Monday. This has been such a pain in the ass and now his job is in jeopardy. They needed his medical history which included anti depressants so then he had to get cleared by psych and now this thing. Ugh!
I obviously do not know how this works but could he just use the machine for a couple days and call it a wash?
That my wedding anniversary is also the anniversary of my brother's stupid drunken death. So, on one had it's "Happy 14 years, lover" and on the other hand it's "My brother died 10 years ago on this day, fuck." Tomorrow's gonna be weird.
I think next year for 15, we're going to pick a new date, have a renewal ceremony and be done with it.
I am sorry Jeneria.. that is wack. Maybe when you celebrate your anniversary and it falls during the week you can just do the celebrating the weekend after? Tough call..
Luckily due to work schedules this year that's what we're going to do. But it's always made celebrating really awkward and difficult. It's like I can't even allow myself to be happy on that day because in the back of my mind there's this family tragedy. White girl problems, I suppose.
Would your brother want you to change your anniversary date? Instead of mourning his death (easy for me to say, I know), maybe celebrate his life? I hope I am not coming across as offensive, that's not what I am trying to do/say. If I died on a special occasion, I would not want my friends or family to mourn, feel guilty, or change anything. I hope that they will celebrate my life and never mourn. I know it is easier said that done.
That's really good advice. We didn't get along. As a matter of fact, no one could piss me off quicker or send me into irrational white hot rage than that kid. He seemed to be turning his life around right before his accident and I had hoped maybe we could get to a point where we could be cordial. But I never really knew him. We were only three years apart and had the same parents, but it was like we were totally different species. I'm still really pissed at him and that's where the guilt stems from. And I feel guilty for being mad at him for ruining what should be a good day for me. You're right though, maybe I need to change my perspective a bit.
Can you find comfort in knowing he started changing and that there was a good possibility that you would have been able to have a decent relationship? Maybe that can squash some of the madness? I'm so sorry that you haven't been able to celebrate your anniversary date because of this tragedy that accompanies it. I'm not trying to preach to you or anything. I hope you can find something, some reason, some anything to have resolution and happiness on your special day. I don't think there is anything wrong with being mad at him. It's being human. And, I don't think you should feel guilty for being human.
May I suggest no alcohol for your 2nd ceremony?
How about if no one drives?
Oh, that can work too. You weren't specific. But yea, just a suggestion.
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