And just to clarify for all the stirrers out there, none of the issues with the caregiver or roomie had anything to do with the vaccine, other than their issues happened on the same day you got your 2nd shot, right?
I have heard the 2nd shot gives you more of a 'sick' response. For the people that have complained about it my response to them was "if you're so bent out of shape over this, imagine how bent out of shape you would be if you didn't get the vaccine and got covid instead!"
But I am an ass and the people that were complaining about it aren't my favorite people anyway, lol.
I had Pfizer too. The person who did the most complaining (after she jumped the line to get the vaccine) had Moderna, and her symptoms sounded very similar to yours for the 2nd one.