It may sound cruel to you but I have to ask. Was there ever a time in your daughter's life that you set a good example? Did you teach her to value herself and to be picky about who she chose to share her time with?? Did you teach her good morals and to use common sense about possible dangerous situations??
It appears to me that you may have failed at teaching her the things she needed most. Young people tend to follow their parent's lead. I see that you change boyfriends (as well as Your last name!!) As often as you change your clothes. Did you EVER stop to think that maybe one of those many guys could have taken your daughter? It seems you drew them in from all over the country and even from out of the country too!!!
We're you ever a parent or just a friend? Did you party with her and double date with her? I see your boyfriends are about your daughter's age.
If you are going to raise her daughter then I beg of you, please start acting like what you are! A GRANDMOTHER!!!!! Don't make the same mistakes. I am sure you don't want history repeating itself.
I had to say what I feel and I pray you will change your ways. I do pray your daughter comes home safe, and when she does I hope you both make some permanent life changes.
Not trying to kick you when you are down just trying to open your eyes! Damn it, you cannot trust people anymore, the world is wicked! Stop inviting strangers into your life and your home!! You are not a kid anymore, face it, you are old!! You look old!! Think of your daughter and your grandchild, they are the ones who should matter to you!!!
I get so angry when I see things like this happen and then you want to cry and whine because someone took her!! Look in the mirror and place that blame where it belongs!!!
If you want to right your wrong just a little bit, change your ways for your daughter's child.