Oh noes, if he finds my FB I am in sooooo much trouble!
FYI, I wouldn't have social media if I was too scared
My point is this...
For one, it's clear that Julie's body was never stolen. It was a mix-up at the funeral home and there are too many vested parties with that company willing to protect them... Including the media, local law enforcement and even the district attorney.
Secondly, there can be good found in mental illness and narcissism. It's all behind the intentions but someone has to be willing to stop certain cycles.
... And lastly when I came to this site I was far more focused on being right than solving any actual problems.
That being said, Dick Tips and his company are far too good at fucking their selves over for me to care to involve myself. His foolishness is in God's hands.
As for me...I think about Julie and I miss her everyday. Its a topic that is brought up to me often by people that are interested to know or hear more about but it's really no one's business.
Nothing will come from other people talking about it but for me it's a scar I wear proudly.
Take care folks. I have other things to do.
Thanks for answering my questions Bill
I'm glad that he's finally let the whole obsession over the funeral home thing go, but I'm not buying his whole act of now being some "Self Help Guru of love and kindness" act. If this were truly the case, he wouldn't have commented at all. He wouldn't have even come back here at all. Nope. He still enjoys the attention and any chance to act like he's smarter than everyone else.
Oh man. I just love this thread. I sure am glad that I'm not starting it at this point. Hours upon hours just to be on page 12? Yikes.
I still can't find this viral tiktok video. I've been all through the @caughtpodcast vids. I could just also not have any idea what I'm doing in there.
We've known forever that the funeral home is responsible and they keep f'ing up yet we still insist on giving Bill such a hard time. It's these bumps that are still keeping MDS going on it's little screechy walker. :)
Hey BFFBILL, after this whole Gabby and Brian thing came to end are you still worried about what might come up if they find Julie"s remainsor are you in the clear now?
Gooble goble gooble goble one of us one of us. t(-_-)t
So first, the Gabby and Brian thing as I understand it, is a story of a couple that had died. One by murder and the other by suicide. I haven't read much into the story beyond that but it's certainly a sad story.
As far as the correlation between that and the one of Julie's, I don't see one.
Obviously I think about this everyday. I deal with my depression and my anger every day because of it.
I've come to terms with knowing full well that Julie would honestly not have cared at all what had happened to her remains. She would be more concerned with her parents suffering through this and would have wanted anything else.
She didn't care so much about her "legacy" nearly as much as I did.
Watching her suffer from pain for years and being mistreated by doctors with every turn....I know for a fact that she is just happy to not be in pain anymore.
Now'a days I don't "worry" about much. A person can choose their consequences or they can choose their actions. They can't choose both.
The consequence that I've chosen is that I can accept that companies can be too big to fail.
When they make a mistake, it would take little to no effort for news outlets they sponsors to pedal whatever narrative to save them.
It would take little to no effort for law enforcement to be right by their side in whatever dog and pony show they'd like to put on display.
I wish I hadn't been so emotionally affected by this stupid stupid mistake but I was. I lost my best friend.
The consequence I'm choosing is to no longer be a selfish person. If they ended up burying her in another persons grave, I would never be the kind of selfish that would want to take that chance in guessing.
Can I eventually forgive Dick Tipps for being an moron?
Can I eventually forgive whoever knows what happened for keeping their mouth shut?
I honestly don't think I can but at least I know I'm not that kind of stupid or that low of a person that I would never come clean about this.
As much as I've suffered through this and continually live with these thoughts, I can at least find solace in knowing I'm not those people.
I may be an angry depressed recovering alcoholic (1 year completely sober btw) but I'd gladly take on all this pain so that I can be the best father I can be for my daughter. I'll gladly continue to take on the pain so that my daughter never has to and I'll never be the type of person who doesn't fight for what's right so that she doesn't have to.
But worry....no. I don't worry.
That was the old me.
https://youtu.be/rQRcg7kbslI
So first, the Gabby and Brian thing as I understand it, is a story of a couple that had died. One by murder and the other by suicide. I haven't read much into the story beyond that but it's certainly a sad story.
As far as the correlation between that and the one of Julie's, I don't see one.
Obviously I think about this everyday. I deal with my depression and my anger every day because of it.
I've come to terms with knowing full well that Julie would honestly not have cared at all what had happened to her remains. She would be more concerned with her parents suffering through this and would have wanted anything else.
She didn't care so much about her "legacy" nearly as much as I did.
Watching her suffer from pain for years and being mistreated by doctors with every turn....I know for a fact that she is just happy to not be in pain anymore.
Now'a days I don't "worry" about much. A person can choose their consequences or they can choose their actions. They can't choose both.
The consequence that I've chosen is that I can accept that companies can be too big to fail.
When they make a mistake, it would take little to no effort for news outlets they sponsors to pedal whatever narrative to save them.
It would take little to no effort for law enforcement to be right by their side in whatever dog and pony show they'd like to put on display.
I wish I hadn't been so emotionally affected by this stupid stupid mistake but I was. I lost my best friend.
The consequence I'm choosing is to no longer be a selfish person. If they ended up burying her in another persons grave, I would never be the kind of selfish that would want to take that chance in guessing.
Can I eventually forgive Dick Tipps for being an moron?
Can I eventually forgive whoever knows what happened for keeping their mouth shut?
I honestly don't think I can but at least I know I'm not that kind of stupid or that low of a person that I would never come clean about this.
As much as I've suffered through this and continually live with these thoughts, I can at least find solace in knowing I'm not those people.
I may be an angry depressed recovering alcoholic (1 year completely sober btw) but I'd gladly take on all this pain so that I can be the best father I can be for my daughter. I'll gladly continue to take on the pain so that my daughter never has to and I'll never be the type of person who doesn't fight for what's right so that she doesn't have to.
But worry....no. I don't worry.
That was the old me.
https://youtu.be/rQRcg7kbslI
Btw if anyone wants to ask him directly what happened maybe he'll come clean...
https://www.facebook.com/michael.c.hoffman.9
Hey Bill how come you didn't promote MDS when you were doing your interview?
Gooble goble gooble goble one of us one of us. t(-_-)t
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