Page 2 of 2 FirstFirst 1 2
Results 26 to 47 of 47

Thread: Patty Nichols aka: Harlette (52) lost her battle with cancer December 29, 2013

  1. #26
    Senior Member ImBatman!'s Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2012
    Location
    Central New Mexico
    Posts
    3,187
    Rep Power
    21474845
    She was my friend and I will miss her.
    "Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; They listen with the intent to reply." ~ anonymous
    "Keep calm and sing Soft Kitty"
    "it is what it is!"

  2. #27
    Senior Member Bellaboo's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2013
    Location
    Philadelphia Pa.
    Posts
    1,493
    Rep Power
    21474843
    Rip Harlette ....... I admire her courage and genuine sweetness as evidenced by her posts.

    "Before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves" .. Confucius
    "The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation " ...... Henry David Thoreau

  3. #28
    XoXo Miller22's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2013
    Posts
    7,135
    Rep Power
    21474849
    Bella - yes, she very much put others before herself. Even when she needed to talk, if she saw others needed to talk too she put her needs aside and comforted them. She also cared and worried about her father quite a bit, putting him above herself as well.

    It was more than clear she didn't want to be a victim or cancer patient inanyone's eyes. And she wasn't. She was strong and courageous. She was one of the good ones.

  4. #29
    Senior Member puzzld's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2007
    Posts
    18,395
    Rep Power
    21474865
    Yes. She and I talked some. Shared war stories. When she disappeared I hoped it was because she'd got on with her life, but I was afraid that someday we'd hear she hadn't made it. I'm shocked that her end came so soon after we last saw her here. From what she said the prognosis was months or even years, not days.
    Quote Originally Posted by bowieluva View Post
    lol at Nestle being some vicious smiter, she's the nicest person on this site besides probably puzzld. Or at least the last person to resort to smiting.
    Quote Originally Posted by nestlequikie View Post
    Why on earth would I smite you when I can ban you?

  5. #30
    Senior Member missbad's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2010
    Location
    Hillbilly Hell
    Posts
    1,318
    Rep Power
    21474846
    Rip Harlette, you are missed.


    Quote Originally Posted by sogs View Post
    Nothing matters but the lesbian.

  6. #31
    Senior Member queenaevadamthng's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2013
    Location
    Hogwaller, SC
    Posts
    4,179
    Rep Power
    21474846
    When I first started this forum, she was one that was really nice to me. She was definitely a sweetie.


    "Theoretical physics can prove that an elephant can hang from a cliff with its tail tied to a daisy. But use your eyes, your common sense".... JIM GARRISON

  7. #32
    Senior Member u2addict's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2013
    Location
    Aiken, SC
    Posts
    1,550
    Rep Power
    21474843
    Godspeed, Harlette.

    I can tell by reading everyones posts that she was wonderful and much loved.

    Fibro Fog has taken over. I am in a constant state of dyscognition so please excuse my retardation.
    'The worst things in the world are justified by belief'- Raised by Wolves SOI

    "Your life is short, it's the longest thing you'll ever do/ the worse the curse was that your dreams came true/
    God is a mirror in which each man sees himself/ Hell is place where you don't need anyone's help"


    ~You got to cry with out weeping. Talk without speaking
    Scream without raising your voice~

  8. #33
    Member Karlita's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2013
    Location
    CT East Coast USA
    Posts
    89
    Rep Power
    1774283
    Rest in peace Harlette. Didn't know you well but read many of your posts. Prayers to her family and friends.

  9. #34
    Senior Member
    Join Date
    Mar 2010
    Location
    B-town, WA
    Posts
    702
    Rep Power
    2095930
    Rest Easy Harlette. :(
    Lurker checking in.

  10. #35
    Senior Member Aeternum Vale's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2012
    Location
    Pangaea
    Posts
    134
    Rep Power
    321043
    R. I. P. Harlette.

  11. #36
    Senior Member Sarya's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2009
    Location
    new orleans and south east London UK
    Posts
    324
    Rep Power
    6714936
    RIP Harlette

  12. #37
    Senior Member animosity's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Posts
    17,485
    Rep Power
    21474860
    I was just thinking about Harlette today and wanted to see if she had a thread. did anyone find out any more information about her? I'm pretty sure she lived in hemet, California.

    Rip harlette. You were a cool gal.
    Last edited by animosity; 12-23-2015 at 12:23 AM.
    Quote Originally Posted by songbirdsong View Post
    "Say, you know who could handle this penis? MY MOTHER."

  13. #38
    XoXo Miller22's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2013
    Posts
    7,135
    Rep Power
    21474849
    mT had tried reaching out to her family. I know her dad was sick, or having problems in that he needed caring for. Even with her own health needs she put others first. It was her way. She didn't want to upset things. That's what I took away from her. She was so great. Always good for joking around with, but I'm private she had a wonderful tender side that was so beautiful.
    "

  14. #39
    Administrator mydeathspace's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2006
    Location
    Death Valley
    Posts
    13,513
    Rep Power
    21474862
    This was the info from when she inquired about purchasing a Premium Membership for uncomfortably numb on 12/13/13.

    Patricia (Patty) Nichols
    Apattya@aol.com

    She also sent me her credit card information, but I didn't respond until 12/30/13 and never heard back from her.

    An IP search brings up Moreno Valley, CA.

  15. #40
    XoXo Miller22's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2013
    Posts
    7,135
    Rep Power
    21474849
    Thank you very much Mike. Would you mind adding her real name to this topic? Ani & I were discussing last night that it feels wrong that she doesn't have a name here.
    "

  16. #41
    Senior Member UncomfortablyNumb's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Location
    Cray Cray Town
    Posts
    6,904
    Rep Power
    21474849
    Quote Originally Posted by mydeathspace View Post
    This was the info from when she inquired about purchasing a Premium Membership for uncomfortably numb on 12/13/13.

    Patricia (Patty) Nichols
    Apattya@aol.com

    She also sent me her credit card information, but I didn't respond until 12/30/13 and never heard back from her.

    An IP search brings up Moreno Valley, CA.
    Aww.
    Quote Originally Posted by bowieluva View Post
    She transitioned from a stupid asshole to a dumb bitch.

  17. #42
    The Dude abides. strmmrgrrl's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2006
    Location
    Long Island, NY
    Posts
    10,361
    Rep Power
    21474858


    Quote Originally Posted by bowieluva View Post
    Getting arrested for coke in Vegas is like being found eating a chocolate bar in the willy wonka factory.

  18. #43
    XoXo Miller22's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2013
    Posts
    7,135
    Rep Power
    21474849
    I was just coming to post that.
    "

  19. #44
    Senior Member animosity's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Posts
    17,485
    Rep Power
    21474860
    You guys are awesome! Thank you for posting this!
    Quote Originally Posted by songbirdsong View Post
    "Say, you know who could handle this penis? MY MOTHER."

  20. #45
    Senior Member Boston Babe 73's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2013
    Location
    Under your bed
    Posts
    16,826
    Rep Power
    21474858
    RIP Patricia. I didn't know you personally, but I knew your posts and they rocked.

    Fuck Cancer.
    Quote Originally Posted by Miller22 View Post
    I thought the exact same thing. Poor Brennen Tammons.
    Oh well, back to gum.
    ....or exchanging Puke's wang for spicy nuts.
    Quote Originally Posted by animosity View Post
    I know, right? What the fuck, puke? Willing to take in Boston, an Irish dude and like, 17 dogs but not Ron? poor Ron.

  21. #46
    Senior Member Bewitchingstorm's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2015
    Location
    Never have I been a blue, calm sea...I have always been a storm.
    Posts
    6,503
    Rep Power
    21474845
    Wow - you all are amazing to have this lovely tribute for her. I think many times we are accused of being heartless and deathmongers; however, this thread proves otherwise.

    RIP Patricia. I didn't know you, but from what my friends are saying here, you were awesome.


    DISCLAIMER: The following quotes are not in reference to your loved one. They are quotes found to be funny in regard to much older cases.

    Quote Originally Posted by songbirdsong View Post

    Okay this is the part where I admit he's kind of pretty, or at least he would be if he hadn't killed his sister and smeared poo on her candy.
    Quote Originally Posted by Angiebla View Post

    Is she scowling in every pic, or is that her unfortunate face?!?

  22. #47
    Senior Member morbidT's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2010
    Posts
    12,019
    Rep Power
    21474856
    Quote Originally Posted by Miller22 View Post
    mT had tried reaching out to her family. I know her dad was sick, or having problems in that he needed caring for. Even with her own health needs she put others first. It was her way. She didn't want to upset things. That's what I took away from her. She was so great. Always good for joking around with, but I'm private she had a wonderful tender side that was so beautiful.
    I sent two cards to her home address. Neither were returned so I don't know if her family got them or not. I called the funeral home and asked them to pass on my info to the family. Never heard anything back. I sent a card to the funeral home. Didn't hear anything back. I had sent a couple emails to her and didn't hear anything back. That's when I googled her and found she may have died. I was reluctant to post her real identity because I wasn't 100% sure it was her, but I'm sure it is after all this time.

    She was such a sweet, sweet lady. I was thinking of her the other day and smiling at some of the things she has posted or said in conversation.

    RIP Harlette


    Quote Originally Posted by blighted star View Post
    ..... it wasn't anything personal, she just mistook him for a serial killer......

Thread Information

Users Browsing this Thread

There are currently 1 users browsing this thread. (0 members and 1 guests)

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •