That Esmie girl got out of prison in 2012. She posts on the mom's facebook. (wade's mom)
Here is the mom's facebook page. really kind of sad, b/c I do believe she struggles even now with Wade's death.
https://www.facebook.com/della.wrightsman
Here is something she wrote:
First, I want to thank every one of you that has responded to the spreading of Wade's ashes, but at this time I just can't do it. I thought I was ready and I'm not. I promise that sometime this summer we will reschedule. I have everything ready so it might be a spur of the moment that I will send out messages to all of you. Unfortunally there were other issues with this that got out of hand. I think most of you that knew and loved Wade know "who" that might be. I wanted it to be a celebration. I'm really sorry! Keep in touch.