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    Bride Maria Pantazopoulos (30) drowns in her wedding dress while doing photoshoot on river

    http://mydeathspace.com/article/2012...ng_photo_shoot



    Her heels and part of her dress where she went in


    when they found her body a few hours later


    MONTREAL - Maria Pantazopoulos had a lot to be happy about.

    The 30-year-old woman had recently bought a house in Laval, started working as a real estate agent with Via Capitale, got married June 9, and went on a honeymoon in the Caribbean.

    "She was really, really happy," said family friend Leeza Pousoulidis.

    Pousoulidis said her friend wanted a way to immortalize her dress, and was excited to take pictures with it in Rawdon on Friday afternoon, as part of a growing trend called trash the dress, in which brides pose for pictures in their wedding dresses, often in unconventional settings like in bodies of water.

    "She's a really fun girl, and she just didn?t want her wedding dress sitting in a box in the closet," Pousoulidis said. She said "I want to have fun with my wedding dress. I want to have great pictures and memories of me in my wedding dress."

    But that photo shoot proved deadly. As Pantazopoulos waded into the water of the Ouareau River in Rawdon, 75 kilometres northeast of Montreal, her dress filled up and weighed her down, causing her to drown.

    "She had her wedding dress on and she said, ?take some pictures of me while I swim a little bit in the lake," she went in and her dress got heavy, I tried everything I could to save her," photographer Louis Pagakis told CTV News. "I jumped in; I was screaming and yelling; we tried our best."

    On Saturday, Pagakis was too distraught to speak with media, so his girlfriend, Anouk Benzacar, answered questions on his behalf.

    "They were shooting a few where the water was shallow, and then she wanted to take a picture floating," Benzacar said, adding that Pantazopoulos moved out to a deeper part of the river where she could not touch the bottom. "The dress was getting heavy, so (Pagakis) went in to try move her (back to a shallow part of the river)."

    She said Pantazopoulos grabbed Pagakis and was pulling him under with her, so it was impossible to bring her back to shore. Pagakis tried several times to rescue her, but eventually, Pantazopoulos ran out of strength and let go.

    "When she let go, he freaked," she said. "He dove to try to find her, but he couldn't."

    The incident occurred about 2 p.m. Friday. Two police officers arrived on the scene, took off their uniforms and jumped into the water to find her, SQ Sgt. Claude Denis said. Eventually an avid scuba diver from the area, who had heard the news about the accident, arrived with his gear and found the woman?s body about 4:30 p.m.

    At Pantazopoulos's workplace, a colleague said they were 'bowled over' by the news.

    "She was really well liked by everyone here," said real estate agent Johanne Grenier. "For us, today is a really sad day."

    Pousoulidis said Pantazopoulos had a dynamic personality.

    "She was a strong, tough girl. She was very petite, but she was strong in character and in physical strength as well. She was very happy and caring. She had a big heart."

    She leaves behind her husband, her parents and a brother.

    "The family is destroyed," Pousoulidis said, but added that family members are grateful for the hard work done by the S'ret du Qubec, and first responders in Rawdon.


    http://www.montrealgazette.com/life/...554/story.html
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    Quote Originally Posted by bowieluva View Post
    Hey, there's a thread for that.

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    okay, so i kind of get the whole trash the dress sessions, or whatever, but traipsing around in a river can be bad news even when you're not wearing wedding attire. this makes me really sad. i can't imagine how horrible the photographer must feel.

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    im not sure i do get the trash the dress thing

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    A lot of girls around here were doing it when I was getting married. It's usually done when they have 2 dresses or if the dress got ruined by the cleaners or they just don't have a desire to save it (my kid probably wouldn't wear it).

    I get it if it was already ruined, but I've seen what people $pend on their dresses so it makes no sense to throw all that money away.


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    The point behind the trash the dress thing is that you'll never need to wear a wedding dress again bc you've found the love of your life, so destroy it.

    That said, I did not do that. Unless you count the pint I spilled down the front of my dress.
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    I don't even know where my dress is. Huh. Maybe I should look into that.

    I have seen the future and I'm fairly relieved to say, it looks nothing like me.

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    wedding dresses are super heavy to begin with. i don't understand why you would get into water with it.

    with so many ladies doing this (taking their trash the dress pics near or in water), i'm surprised she's the only casualty we've heard of.

    and my dress is in a box right now bc we are moving, but i always have it hanging in my closet.


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    How sad. It totally sucks that it went from being a happy occasion to devastating. Poor girl.
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    So tailors started a "trash the dress" trend, huh?
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    I absolutely LOVE Trash the Dress photos. I've been a big fan of the phenomenon for the past few years. I always swore that if I ever find somebody stupid enough to marry me, I'll do a TtD photo shoot. It should give me an incentive to not spend a fortune on the dress and we'll walk away from the experience with awesome photos.

    That being said, yeah, it's dangerous to be around water in a heavy dress. However, I've seen loads of TtD photos that involve the bride being in water, so clearly what Maria did is not all that unusual. Why it led to tragedy for her and not the others is a mystery.

    It's very sad all around. I feel terribly sorry for everyone who witnessed it and all her loved ones.

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    all the typos in that article up there drove me crazy when i tried reading it; i'm pretty sure my brain spun around a few times with every ill-punctuated quote.

    that said, i think it would have been way cooler to make some other bride as "really, really happy" as maria by donating it to charity or doing resale. but trashing a dress just to trash it strikes me as awfully shallow and wasteful.


    in retrospect: oops, i said "shallow." too soon?


    but for real, RIP maria.

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    Oh yea the punctuation is somewhat my fault and somewhat MDS's fault because of the question marks.
    Sorry.

    And i totally agree about the trashing the dress, i dont get the appeal. Charity would have been an awesome route to take.
    I plan on wearing my mom's. She saved it and i love it
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    Quote Originally Posted by HockeyGirl View Post
    Oh yea the punctuation is somewhat my fault and somewhat the sites fault because of the question marks.
    Im not sorry.


    And i totally agree about the trashing the dress, i dont get the appeal. Charity would have been an awesome route to take.
    I plan on wearing my mom's. She saved it and i love it
    Ditto.
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    My mom's dress was rented. I'm half a foot taller than her anyway.
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    Quote Originally Posted by angelaiscaustic View Post
    My mom's dress was rented. I'm half a foot taller than her anyway.
    You looked great, your dress was your style.

    If my moms wasnt my style I wouldnt be planning on wearing it one day.

    I saw a cute pic on a bridal website where three best friends had gotten married thru the course of a few years and when the last one got married they all went to the beach together and did a cute photoshoot in their wedding dresses. I thought it was an adorable idea. I would love to do that with my three cousins but one got married in a wife beater

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    She only weighed 100 pounds. I bet that dress got really heavy.

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    I have never even heard of trash the dress, and I'm married! Anyway, I feel horrible for the photographer, and for the girl's family. How sad!

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    When I think of rivers, I think of like, the Fox River by me. Slow, murky, dead mafiosos floating down at the bottom. That thing up in the picture is like a raging rapids type deal. I wouldn't have gotten near that thing in a big ass wedding dress.

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    Wow in all of the trash the dress sessions I have done, I've never done one in a raging river where the person plops into water in full dress. Bad Idea! Even when doing faux horror type shoots - you have to use a gutted dress or slip for the in the water part. There were several ways they could have pulled this off and I just can't believe none of the precautions were taken. Though I wouldn't put this in a trash the dress category anyway. ooo it got wet.That photographer should have been on his toes, then again there should have been more than just 2 people on that kind of a shoot. It's sad that something that should have been so much fun for her turned into such a senseless tragedy.

    Rip Maria

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    I wonder who made her dress...talk about negative publicity.

    Honestly, I'm all for renting a dress. Why spend a fortune on the damn thing if you're just going to trash it?

    Looking at my mom's wedding/dress pictures makes me eternally grateful that she didn't save it. Thing was hideous
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    So sad! A ton of girls I know did a trash the dress photo shoot, most in water too, but never a flowing river. How sad :( I did my own "trash the dress" at the end of my reception where I handed out sharpies and let everyone sign/write messages on my dress. It's the best guest book ever. :)

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    Quote Originally Posted by debk589 View Post
    So sad! A ton of girls I know did a trash the dress photo shoot, most in water too, but never a flowing river. How sad :( I did my own "trash the dress" at the end of my reception where I handed out sharpies and let everyone sign/write messages on my dress. It's the best guest book ever. :)
    Yeah water is one thing, but a river is a whole different story. I've done some interesting river shots (different from ttd shots), but like I said it takes a team of people, props, & scaled down dresses. I just can't see any photographer saying yes to this other than inexperience and/or greed.

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    My friend went surfing in her dress. I guess she should count herself lucky she didn't end up at the bottom of the ocean.

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