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    Woman beats her mother-in-law to death with a rolling pin after enduring 'unkindness and name calling'

    A woman who beat her mother-in-law to death with a rolling pin claims she was provoked by name-calling and her unkindness towards her.

    Rajvinder Kaur, 37, is accused of inflicting multiple head, neck and body injuries on Baljit Kaur Buttar in a sustained attack in the family?s bathroom.

    She then called an ambulance claiming her mother-in-law had suffered a heart attack.

    Paramedics were called to the flat in Southampton, on February 25 last year to find 56-year-old Mrs Buttar, known as Bibi, was dead in the bath.

    The jury at Winchester Crown Court was shown a video of the scene which showed the bathroom floor covered in blood.

    Mrs Kaur has admitted killing her mother in law but denies murder as she claims her mother-in-law?s behaviour towards her provoked her into losing her self-control.

    Mrs Buttar had been staying with the family for six month and according to Rajvinder Kaur she would call her names, threaten her and behave unkind to her.

    The court was told that Kaur?s two sons, aged nine and 18 months were at home at the time of the killing.

    A previous trial, at which Mrs Kaur denied having anything to do with the death, was halted earlier this year when she admitted the killing.

    At one point she said her mother-in-law had a bath and was putting some oil on when she must have slipped and sustained the injuries, the court was told.

    Prosecutor Bill Mousley QC said when a paramedic arrived there was shouting between Mrs Kaur and her husband, Iqbal Singh and Mrs Kaur was washing her mother-in-law?s body with a handheld shower in the bath.

    Mr Singh and the paramedic lifted Mrs Buttar out of the bath and into the kitchen while Kaur watched.

    Resuscitation attempts were unsuccessful.

    Mr Mousley said: ?She claims that she is not guilty of murder but only of manslaughter because she was provoked into losing her self-control by Baljit Buttar?s general and specific conduct towards her.

    ?She claims she was unkind to her and would call her names.

    ?She claims that in the bathroom her mother-in-law was threatening to her.

    ?Alternatively at the time of the attack it is said she was in an abnormal mental state which may limit her responsibility for the death.?

    Mrs Buttar had been staying with the family since August 2010 and had been due to return to India on February 27 - just two days after she had died.

    Mr Mousley told the court: ?It is clear that she was very angry when she attacked and killed her mother-in-law but her behaviour was not triggered by any fear of being seriously harmed or wronged.

    ?Whatever the reason for her deadly violence, it was not a justifiable one.

    ?Any explanation which the defendant may now seek to advance should be viewed with, at the very least, considerable scepticism considering her persistent attempts to mislead the police and the court on a previous occasion, as well as her own psychiatrist.

    ?Faced with the evidence against her, this late change of tack is just another dishonest effort at limiting the damage.?


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    This reminds me of that show Monster in Law, some of that shit is just amazing. Also, why was she holding a rolling pin in the bathroom??


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    I want to say that this woman is now the idol of many other daughter-in-laws, but that seems crude. She had already stuck out 98% of her MIL's visit, why not the last two days?

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    Seriously, though.

    I would hate to have that kind of relationship with my in-laws and it might even stop me from marrying someone if it was that bad.


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    Quote Originally Posted by g r ee n ey e s View Post
    Seriously, though.

    I would hate to have that kind of relationship with my in-laws and it might even stop me from marrying someone if it was that bad.
    It would make me wanna marry them even more just out of spite. Man, I have issues.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ron_NYC View Post
    It would make me wanna marry them even more just out of spite. Man, I have issues.
    Screw that mess, I want to live a happy life.

    Also, the more grandparents there are, the more gifts and babysitters I have if I spawn.


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    Quote Originally Posted by g r ee n ey e s View Post
    Screw that mess, I want to live a happy life.

    Also, the more grandparents there are, the more gifts and babysitters I have if I spawn.
    Step 1: Don't let them see their grandkids.


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    Ron was the best part, hands down.

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    When my husband and I were dating, my (now) mother-in-law was a complete bitch to me. My best friend referred to her as the ice queen. I don't know if it was because my was husband was 4 years older than me and I was still in college or because she really loved his ex-girlfriend. Thankfully she's come around and is 100% awesome. Well, maybe 95% but it's a vast difference than what she was. She's still praying the rosary every damn day for grandchildren

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    My grandma was super mean to me but never once did I think of physically harming her. There is no justification, especially when the mil was going to be leaving as it was. How hard is it to just lock yourself in a room and say fuck it until the person is out of your house especially if it means losing your mind and killing someone?

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    Well My muther in law was always mean towards me and I thought about punching her in the mouth many times. A rolling pin...mmmm..not a bad idea....:-)

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    good one there

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    unkindness? holy shit, everyone I know would be dead.

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    Sometimes I want to beat my mother-in-law for being too kind. Glad I live 1000 miles away! haha

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    Seriously. What can she say? "She was being mean to me, so I killed her. That's okay, right?" LOL

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