Sooooo, I get this really weird voice mail from a friends boyfriend today to call them back because they want to ask me something very important. I really HATE messages like that because I always feel like I did something wrong and they are about to point the finger at me. Come to find out that they were calling because he was looking for pallbearers for his brothers' funeral. I'm like......WHAT?!?!?! You can call me for this but NOT call me to tell me that your brother has been sick for over a month and that he has cancer bad? I am totally stuck with what I should or shouldn't do at this point? This is someone that I have known for the past 10 years, I am crying because I wans't there for them and that I simply didn't know what was going on.