Originally Posted by
vaela
The way you are wording this is the problem. IF it was truly an accident (we don't know wtf happened, for all we know he meant to do it or he totally had no clue it was vodka) then the issue of "forgetting that your baby shouldn't have lethal doses of alcohol" is totally irrelevant. Everybody knows babies can't have alcohol.
I used to put vodka in water bottles in and then put them in the fridge, unlabeled. I'd remember it was vodka, but nobody else knew, so there would be occasions where my boyfriend would go for a drink of water and be unpleasantly surprised. Granted, we didn't have a baby in the house, and if we did, chances are I wouldn't have been as careless.
BUT, until we get more details about whether this was intentional or accidental, I think it's safe to say that it's plausible that it could have been an accident without him being the worst father on the planet. He might have made the formula in a hurry and not realized what he'd done until it was too late. It really isn't that far-fetched.
But god I hope it wasn't on purpose.