I don't think we are making any progress here.

One side thinks it is gross and annoying, the other side thinks it isn't.

I will say this. Say it's just a sloppy titty with milk coming out of it. Im sure we can agree that is gross. I don't see why adding a baby to it makes it less gross. Like say Alicia Silverstone chews up baby food and spits it out into the trash can. Pretty gross right? But now it's ok because she spits it into her baby's mouth?