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    Quote Originally Posted by strmmrgrrl View Post
    I'm thinking it's a groundskeeper, maintenance/facilities worker who has access to that master key or all the units in your complex. Methinks there's a perv on the payroll.
    That or someones trying to gaslight her.
    "It's the salt water that changes the Rainbow's pretty colors to gray." "And his colors never come back?" "No, once he's been to the sea he's changed forever. The Steelhead can come back home here, stay for the rest of his days, and live among the other Rainbow trout, but he'll always be different because of where he's been." Morsi, Pamela. Garters.

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    Quote Originally Posted by strmmrgrrl View Post
    I'm thinking it's a groundskeeper, maintenance/facilities worker who has access to that master key or all the units in your complex. Methinks there's a perv on the payroll.
    But then why the need to steal her spare key??

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    Quote Originally Posted by sarabei View Post
    But then why the need to steal her spare key??
    Just to freak her out. Maybe she hadn't noticed the skulking and they wanted to get her attention.
    "It's the salt water that changes the Rainbow's pretty colors to gray." "And his colors never come back?" "No, once he's been to the sea he's changed forever. The Steelhead can come back home here, stay for the rest of his days, and live among the other Rainbow trout, but he'll always be different because of where he's been." Morsi, Pamela. Garters.

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    Quote Originally Posted by puzzld View Post
    Just to freak her out. Maybe she hadn't noticed the skulking and they wanted to get her attention.
    That's what I was thinking. I wish I lived nearby, I would have her back.

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    Me too; that would totally freak the hell outta me. The key stealing could be just to creep her out, but I do think the building should be taking this seriously and help in any way they could. I wouldn't leave my dog unattended there either.

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    Hey guys, sorry I was at work all day but I just finished reading through all the replies.

    I am most likely thinking it is someone who lives/works at the complex or maybe lives in the houses behind my complex.
    But again, the whole not taking anything is the scariest part of all because I can't figure out what the fuck their motive is. Just to be an asshole and scare the shit out of me?
    But anyway, I'm pissed that all my complex did was change my locks. They didn't install security like they said they would consider and they haven't even put a notice out to my neighbors. I notified them all today and the management was pissed apparently.
    Oh, and I checked my underwear-it is all there.

    Today is my 21st birthday and I'm terrified this stalker or whatever it is will come back tonight and ruin my whole birthday (I'm selfish).
    The only reason I feel safe leaving my dog at home is because I know he'd destroy the shit out of someone if they tried to touch him and he didn't know them-but unfortunately he was in his crate at the time of the 'break-in'. From now on he'll be free in the apartment just in case.

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    Quote Originally Posted by puzzld View Post
    That or someones trying to gaslight her.
    I just looked this term up, and I fucking LOVE it.
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    Ron was the best part, hands down.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ron_NYC View Post
    I just looked this term up, and I fucking LOVE it.
    I had to look the term up too.
    That would be extremely fucked up if that is what they are doing. Not cool, I already have enough problems haha.

    Also, my timeline on Facebook is like 85% public. Most of my posts are public anyway, like check-ins just in case I'm kidnapped or killed or something.
    I've been lurking this site for too long, I've gotten more paranoid over the years, haha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Megan Russell View Post
    I had to look the term up too.
    That would be extremely fucked up if that is what they are doing. Not cool, I already have enough problems haha.

    Also, my timeline on Facebook is like 85% public. Most of my posts are public anyway, like check-ins just in case I'm kidnapped or killed or something.
    I've been lurking this site for too long, I've gotten more paranoid over the years, haha.
    No shame in that.

    Quote Originally Posted by bowieluva View Post
    Ron was the best part, hands down.

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    I hate to be the paranoid one here, but any chance creeper snuck in to set up a cam to watch you?


    Hope this all resolves soon for you!!

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    Get a mean dog.

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    I agree with Chaunce. Get a mean dog, get a concealed weapons permit, carry a small gun (only if you know what the hell you are doing) and take a few self defense classes OR move. Just my opinion tho. Not everyone should have a firearm.

    If I were as afraid as what you are saying you are, I wouldnt be staying there at all, I wouldnt be going back there at all.

    I will say tho that I would almost guarantess you that your landlords are not going to invest any kind of money into this situation (meaning surveillance). They dont live where you live, inside your apartment so it sounds to me like them changing the locks is as far as they are going.

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    Get Ron To Move In. Big Scary Black Man FTW
    Oh God, Stop The Voices *SCREAM*

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    I'm much more scared of Boddy then Ron.

    I would move.

    I was also under the impression she did have a scary dog.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sogs View Post
    I'm much more scared of Boddy then Ron.

    I would move.

    I was also under the impression she did have a scary dog.

    I Am PERFECTLY HARMLESS
    Oh God, Stop The Voices *SCREAM*

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    Quote Originally Posted by morbid1 View Post
    I hate to be the paranoid one here, but any chance creeper snuck in to set up a cam to watch you?


    Hope this all resolves soon for you!!
    Holy shit! That made me think of this movie:

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    Quote Originally Posted by morbid1 View Post
    I hate to be the paranoid one here, but any chance creeper snuck in to set up a cam to watch you?


    Hope this all resolves soon for you!!
    That is what I've been thinking as a possibility. So just in case I've made sure to do a bunch of weird shit that will hopefully make the creeper think I'm the creeper instead just in case there is a camera hidden somewhere.
    It has been fun acting like I'm totally insane-which now seems really weird...pretending I'm crazy while I'm alone in my apartment that may or may not have a hidden camera in it. Oh god, am I actually crazy? Haha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by White trash bitchy blonde View Post
    I agree with Chaunce. Get a mean dog, get a concealed weapons permit, carry a small gun (only if you know what the hell you are doing) and take a few self defense classes OR move. Just my opinion tho. Not everyone should have a firearm.

    If I were as afraid as what you are saying you are, I wouldnt be staying there at all, I wouldnt be going back there at all.

    I will say tho that I would almost guarantess you that your landlords are not going to invest any kind of money into this situation (meaning surveillance). They dont live where you live, inside your apartment so it sounds to me like them changing the locks is as far as they are going.
    My dog CAN be mean when he feels something isn't right or I'm in danger. It's pretty funny because sometimes when my boyfriend hugs me really tight he'll go crazy because he thinks he is hurting me or something. My dog is weird...or maybe just an idiot. Who knows.

    I would love to have a gun, but because I have no idea how to use one (last time I used one was when I was 8) I don't think that is my best option, haha.

    But yeah, I've wanted to move and not come back, but last night everything was fine, so I figured maybe things are okay...for now. I've been on my guard so I guess that is the best I can do right now. I'm not quite financially stable enough to just move away, so I guess I have to just do my best with the situation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MrBoddy2005 View Post
    Get Ron To Move In. Big Scary Black Man FTW
    Haha that actually ran through my mind, haha.

    From all my years of lurking I think Ron is the one person I would want guarding my door, haha.
    That IS a compliment.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MrBoddy2005 View Post
    I Am PERFECTLY HARMLESS
    I don't think I've run into you much on the forum, so I can't quite say if you would be better at dealing with this crazy stalker (or whoever).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Seraphim View Post
    Holy shit! That made me think of this movie:
    God damnit.

    Well like I said, I've been trying to act like a total loon when I'm at home, so hopefully if there is a camera whoever is watching it will realize they fucked up and are stalking someone even crazier than them.

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    Who would want to spy on Hilary Swank?

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    Maybe it's been said before, but if you can't have your boyfriend stay maybe you can find a friend willing to stay for a few days?

    I would think the idea of being watched alone could drive you batty if not overly paranoid. Which.. while you want to be safe, you also want to be sane too?


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    My guess is that probably you are jumping to a lot of conclusions based on the disappearance of your house key, which makes sense to get paranoid about. But you changed your locks and I wouldn't start deciding that your life is turning into a bad Lifetime movie (AKA A GREAT LIFETIME MOVIE) just yet. Likely based on hearing the other girl's story, you are adding details. As for the Amazon package, I have received things by mistake and had packages never show up. Another likely coincidence.

    You slept with mike so he would ban me. change your sig..the pretentious look how hipster face is so old ooh you like guys with glasses..ooooh

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    Quote Originally Posted by jessielee View Post
    Who would want to spy on Hilary Swank?
    Jeffrey Dean Morgan. He started going in her place while she was asleep and watching her then it escalated to him drugging her and sexing her up. It was a decent crap movie.

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