I don't see how the MIL is a cunt. She's not the one who put this shit "on blast."
No one would know about this if the daughter just took the advice and STFU! If she did it in front of everyone at the party, she's a cunt. If she sends her an email, she's a cunt. The woman can't win, and there's nothing wrong with having some rules in your casa.
Waiting for someone to point out how I'm single.
Yea, I know...the bitch you marry is always right and your mom is an asshole. I forget sometimes.
Wouldn't be anything to put on blast if the cunt wouldn't have said it to begin with. Come on, Ron. This is an email about manners and she talks to her dil-to be like that? WTF? Dumb broad wouldn't know manners if they dropped out of the sky and broke her fucking dollar store crystal. If she *had* to say anything there was a much, much, much, much more appropriate AND mannerly way to do it. I think it's hilarious she put it on blast. What is it you always say? Don't start none, ain't got none or some shit?
If someone doesn't eat my cookies, I'm going to feel like an asshole for not making enough variety to accommodate my guest's tastes.
If someone takes the last slice of pizza, I'm going to call their ass out and get a knife.
If someone sleeps in all day-- I'm gonna wake their ass up.
MIL is a persnickety bitch and should have addressed her complaints directly, forthright, and politely, rather than being passive-aggressive, humiliating her, making the poor tactless woman's wedding day awkward, and passing judgment on someone she's supposedly going to be dealing with for a lifetime without even bothering to TRY to reach an accord in a direct, civilized manner.
The more I think about it, the more angry I get.
"Don't start none, won't be none."
I think it was kinda shitty, but I don't see where she's so horrible I guess. I mean she just wants her to respect the rules of her house. Not the end of the world.
If someone's mom thought they had to point these things out to me, I'd follow the rules, not broadcast it to people. If anything I'd be embarrassed that I had to be told these things. Just seems like the respectful thing to do.
I'd like another guy to weigh in here, cause I'm curious if the mom is wrong, or it's just that you're all a bunch of unruly bitches.
Unruly bitch here
Are you kidding me? She sent her an email, she didn't fly a plane dragging the message! WHAT THE FUCK!?!? There is no reason to be this pissed about a fucking email. Please tell me you're kidding.
Hey, just admit it. I don't see how this woman is plain evil for asking someone in an email to follow the rules of her house. THE NERVE!
Hahah I'm definitely an unruly bitch when it comes to food. I grew up in a family where there was always plenty of food on the table and the guests were expected to just dig in and enjoy. But then it was nothing to have the whole baling crew plus the repair guy who came to fix the baler eat with us. I'm not a member of the elite manners squad, I guess. We just want our guests to feel comfortable.
Yea, if my future father-in-law sent me an email asking to not wear shorts to his place for dinner or something, my response would be "not a problem, sir." Not broadcasting the email, or saying he's trying to humiliate me.
Fleta, humiliate? Seriously? Have you ever been asked to do anything, ever?
Do you know what it means to be humiliated? I'm not even kidding here, cause you're using it all wrong.
Humiliating would be if he were to go on a rant in the middle of dinner about how I went to his house dressed like a classless bum, not sending me a personal message later.
Hahaha I'm literally sitting here laughing out loud about this thread and the attention it's getting. I'm just people and if I have to be perfect in order to go to someone's home I just won't be going and wouldn't care at all. My mil has been smacked down by me so many times when she tried to get uppity that I just don't really hear from her much anymore. Ahh life is good.
See? No snarky emails. Right to the point.
I just have visions of this kid who was raised in an ultra rich and snobbish family bringing this chick home for dinner and everyone is in tuxes or ball gowns and she walks in looking like this and asking where the fuck she can set up her pole. I don't see how any other scenario could make an allegedly well mannered woman act like that.
She didn't send an email politely asking her to mind her manners, she sent a detailed list explaining every error she made, insulting her family, and topped it off by outrightly telling her that she is not good enough for the man she plans to marry. B-I-T-C-H.
Humiliation doesn't have to be public. If you need an entire audience to be humiliated, you probably need to develop your self-esteem. One person whom you hope to earn respect from and anticipate a drawn-out relationship with sneering and all bit spitting on you would be pretty damaging for me.
Yanno, I totally thought that for a second, too
Decided it was redic since I could give two shits what most people think because I'm so awesome. But if I hope to earn someone's respect and they sneer down their nose at me, yeah, I find it disheartening, since I only want respect from people who are also awesome.
As a socially retarded person, I appreciate when someone points out a mistake i've made. I'm not a cretin by any stretch of the imagination , but i'm super aspie...aka, totally oblivious. Things that would occur to the average person just might not occur to me. the mil could have been nicer, but sometimes people need to be told when they've made a faux pas.
* wow you truly are the sterial cunt here are yo not.I fuckin hate you cunt* - LoonywopOriginally Posted by Ron_NYC
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