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    I wondered about that too.  Also, if she smothered in her pillow, wouldn't her husband have noticed that she was down (no pun intended) in the pillow.  Usually when you check or adjust someone's covers you do it around the persons shoulders.
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    Thanks for that, I thought it was just me.

    I never thought about what you said, you bring a good point there, he did say he checked on her  during the day.
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    Thanks for that, I thought it was just me.

    I never thought about what you said, you bring a good point there, he did say he checked on her  during the day.
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    Several times during the day and also mentioned adjusting the covers.  For a body to be cold and hard takes a while.  Time of death is often determined by the temp of the body core.
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    I'm Art.....

    1) Beck didn't suffocate, she died of alcohol intoxication.  She use to have psychotic episodes where she would talk to people that weren't there, cut herself, re-live things tha happened in her past  This one was more severe than the others she normally had, I had to call her mother over to help as she was screaming "stop raping me".  By the morning she calmed down, we gave her the meds she takes when she has these attacks and we put her to sleep.  Last words she said to me were "i love you"  I thought she was fine, when i checked on her later i realized something was wrong.  As I found out months later, from all the drinking she did there was alchohol that was in her body and not broken down and this attack released it all.  According to her blood level she had the eqluivant of 20 gin and tonics in her body....she didn't drink at all during this attack she had and there was no booze in this house.  In fact, she spent most of the night in the tub since in her mind this is where the people who were after her couldn't get her.

    As I said, I thought she was sleeping all days...there were no physical signs she was dead.  The pills she takes when she has one of these attacks knock her out...her being out for 24 hours after an attack like this was no big deal.

    2) Beck wasn't gaining weight and she wasn't goth.  She dressed in a lot of black....we both thought the doom and gloom goth lifrestyle is kind of pathetic.

    3) I'm not over Beck.....I 'm with someone i love very much but as she could tell you or any people who actually know me beck was my soul mate and losing her totally broke me.  I've tried to kill myself several times after her death, developed a nice drug addiction, even had sexual problems cause to this day i feel like I'm cheating on her.

    4) We were not swingers, people like to say that but during the time I was with beck i never slept with another women, was in a strip club, or even watched porn.  Beck was the only thing I wanted.  Beck was a rape victim as a child and like some of them become she had a need to re-live being abused by men and would do things behind my back.  I looked the other way alot when she was alive since i knew she couldn't stop herself.  I was hoping to hang on until she started healing.

    5) I don't know why you keep refering to erin as the third person....my first two profiles are beck....

    6) If I was going to pay for a hot girlfriend it wouldn't be beck.  You know how many nights I spent in the hospital with her after a suicide attempt, how many times i had to leave work cause there were "people" in the house after her, I woke up ever night with her crying about being raped.  After we got married we barley had sex cause she had a need to re-live her past of abuse and often felt dirty coming home drunk after hooking up with sleazist bar drunk she could find, she would project that i was cheating on her looking for some girl in the house...usually i was sleeping having to go to work the next day.  Some nights she'd be so out of control i'd have to leave the house and lseep in the car until she calmed down...and this is right after she cheated on me.  Yeah, I'm a real pig who thinks with my dick.  I loved this girl and she had problams.....i dont' even know why I'm explaining this to any of you...you really doin't understand.  

    And Erin....yeah....i'm a lot of fun to be with....one big party. I spent most of the last year trying to kill myself, crying about beck, looking to hurt some of the men who took advantage of beck when she was alive.  Erin's a real golddigger....in the past year i've known her I bought her a pair of boots, i mean she must be fucking me for that pair of boots.  I stopped working after Beck died, blown most of my money on things to numb the pain, and i meet this girl who totally cares for me and never once asked for anything from me.  Yup, she's in it for the money...and yeah, she was a lesbian until she met me.

    It's funny...i always dated older women.  I struggle with the age difference but Beck and Erin always laughed at me telling me that age is nothing but a number.  Apprently that is not the case for the people up here.

    You people really have no clue what you're talking about regarding beck.....my anniversary would have been this tuesday....thank you for taking my life and treating it so lightly.


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    Re: Rebecca "Lady Beque" Connolly (23) suffocated in her own pillows after going

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    I'm Art.....

    1) Beck didn't suffocate, she died of alcohol intoxication.  She has a psychotic episode where she would talk to people that weren't there, cut herself, re-live things tha happened in her past  This one was more severe than the others she normally had, I had to call her mother over.  By the morning she calmed down, we gave her the meds she takes when she has these attacks and we put her to sleep.  Last words she said to me were "i love you"  I thought she was fine, when i checked on her later i realized something was wrong.  As I found out months later alchohol that was in her body and not broken down and this attack released it all.  According to her blood level she had the eqluivant of 20 gin and tonics in her body....she didn't drink at all during this attack she had.  In fact, she spent most of the night in the tub since in her mind this is where the people who were after her couldn't get her.

    As I said, I thought she was sleeping all days...there were no physical signs she was dead.  The pills she takes when she has one of these attacks knock her out...her being out for 24 hours after an attack like this was no big deal.

    2) Beck wasn't gaining weight and she wasn't goth.  She dressed in a lot of black....we both think the doom and gloom goth lifrstyle is kind of pathetic.

    3) I'm not over Beck.....I 'm with someone i love very much but as she could tell you or any people who actually know me beck was my soul mate and losing her totally broke me.  I've tried to kill myself several times after her death, developed a nice drug addiction, even had sexual problems cause to this day i feel like I'm cheating on her.

    4) We were not swingers, people like to say that but during the time I was with beck i never slept with another women, was in a strip club, or even watched porn.  Beck was the only thing I wanted.  Beck was a rape victim as a child and like some of them become she had a need to re-live being abused by men and would do things behind my back.  I looked the other way alot when she was alive since i knew she couldn't stop herself.

    5) I don't know why you keep refering to erin as the third person....my first two profiles are beck

    6) If I was going to pay for a hot girlfriend it wouldn't be beck.  You know how many nights I spent in the hospital with her after a suicide attempt, how many times i had to leave work cause there were "people" in the house after her, I woke up ever night with her crying about being raped.  After we got married we barley had sex cause she had a need to re-live her past of abuse and often felt dirty coming home drunk after hooking up with sleazist bar drunk she could find, she would project that i was cheating on her looking for some girl in the house...usually i was sleeping having to go to work the next day.  Some nights she'd be so out of control i'd have to leave the house and lseep in the car until she calmed down...and this is right after she cheated on me.  Yeah, I'm a real pig who thinks with my dick.  I loved this girl and she had problams.....i dont' even know why I'm explaining this to any of you...you really doin't understand. 

    And Erin....yeah....i'm a lot of fun to be with....one big party. I spent most of the last year trying to kill myself, crying about beck, looking to hurt some of the men who took advantage of beck when she was alive.  Erin's a real golddigger....in the past year i've known her I bought her a pair of boots, i mean she must be fucking me for that pair of boots.  I stopped working after Beck died, blown most of my money on things to numb the pain, and i meet this girl who totally cares for me and never once asked for anything from me.  Yup, she's in it for the money...and yeah, she was a lesbian until she met me.

    It's funny...i always dated older women.  I struggle with the age difference but Beck and Erin always laughed at me telling me that age is nothing but a number.  Apprently that is not the case for the people up here.

    You people really have no clue what you're talking about regarding beck.....my anniversary would have been this tuesday....thank you for taking my life and treating it so lightly.


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    This is Erin, Arts girlfriend.

    You people are so fucking ignorant. You could try getting to know people and the whole story before passing judgment. I am NOT a gold digger, I love art for being the sweet, compassionate, caring guy that he is. And even when he was going through his hardest times i was still there for him 100% doing anything i could to help him. Ive never asked him for anything material. Actually the only thing ive asked him for is sex. Everyone thinks he's the older guy trying to bang the young girl, but its quite the opposite in our relationship.
    And to answer some of the statements people have posted, I never met beck, i used to have a crush on her and would send her flirty emails but i never got to actually meet her.
    I used to consider myself a lesbian, I would only have sex with women starting when i was 12. Then, at 18, i met art and fell for him. I still love women and enjoy having sex with them. But like I've said before, Art is the only man for me.
    I am not jealous or upset that Art still loves and talks about beck. She was his soul-mate and there's no changing that.
    Anyways, i hope this cleared some shit up for you. Maybe now you can read into whats REALLY going on and stop making up pathetic shit about my boyfriend because you have nothing better to do. Thanks! :)

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    [quote author=Sadistic Cunt link=topic=4465.msg171441#msg171441 date=1170456396]
    This is Erin, Arts girlfriend.

    You people are so fucking ignorant. You could try getting to know people and the whole story before passing judgment. I am NOT a gold digger, I love art for being the sweet, compassionate, caring guy that he is. And even when he was going through his hardest times i was still there for him 100% doing anything i could to help him. Ive never asked him for anything material. Actually the only thing ive asked him for is sex. Everyone thinks he's the older guy trying to bang the young girl, but its quite the opposite in our relationship.
    And to answer some of the statements people have posted, I never met beck, i used to have a crush on her and would send her flirty emails but i never got to actually meet her.
    I used to consider myself a lesbian, I would only have sex with women starting when i was 12. Then, at 18, i met art and fell for him. I still love women and enjoy having sex with them. But like I've said before, Art is the only man for me.
    I am not jealous or upset that Art still loves and talks about beck. She was his soul-mate and there's no changing that.
    Anyways, i hope this cleared some shit up for you. Maybe now you can read into whats REALLY going on and stop making up pathetic shit about my boyfriend because you have nothing better to do. Thanks! :)
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    I give you tons of credit. Takes a strong person to give that kind of support to someone you care for.  in this scenario it is so easy for outsiders to pin you as a bad guy. Be it people here or people close to the situation. Its ovbious he's a lucky guy to have someone to pick him up when he is down.

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    Re: Rebecca "Lady Beque" Connolly (23) suffocated in her own pillows after going

    [quote author=asouza link=topic=4465.msg171390#msg171390 date=1170454731]
    I'm Art.....

    1) Beck didn't suffocate, she died of alcohol intoxication.  She use to have psychotic episodes where she would talk to people that weren't there, cut herself, re-live things tha happened in her past  This one was more severe than the others she normally had, I had to call her mother over to help as she was screaming "stop raping me".  By the morning she calmed down, we gave her the meds she takes when she has these attacks and we put her to sleep.  Last words she said to me were "i love you"  I thought she was fine, when i checked on her later i realized something was wrong.  As I found out months later, from all the drinking she did there was alchohol that was in her body and not broken down and this attack released it all.  According to her blood level she had the eqluivant of 20 gin and tonics in her body....she didn't drink at all during this attack she had and there was no booze in this house.  In fact, she spent most of the night in the tub since in her mind this is where the people who were after her couldn't get her.

    As I said, I thought she was sleeping all days...there were no physical signs she was dead.  The pills she takes when she has one of these attacks knock her out...her being out for 24 hours after an attack like this was no big deal.

    2) Beck wasn't gaining weight and she wasn't goth.  She dressed in a lot of black....we both thought the doom and gloom goth lifrestyle is kind of pathetic.

    3) I'm not over Beck.....I 'm with someone i love very much but as she could tell you or any people who actually know me beck was my soul mate and losing her totally broke me.  I've tried to kill myself several times after her death, developed a nice drug addiction, even had sexual problems cause to this day i feel like I'm cheating on her.

    4) We were not swingers, people like to say that but during the time I was with beck i never slept with another women, was in a strip club, or even watched porn.  Beck was the only thing I wanted.  Beck was a rape victim as a child and like some of them become she had a need to re-live being abused by men and would do things behind my back.  I looked the other way alot when she was alive since i knew she couldn't stop herself.  I was hoping to hang on until she started healing.

    5) I don't know why you keep refering to erin as the third person....my first two profiles are beck....

    6) If I was going to pay for a hot girlfriend it wouldn't be beck.  You know how many nights I spent in the hospital with her after a suicide attempt, how many times i had to leave work cause there were "people" in the house after her, I woke up ever night with her crying about being raped.  After we got married we barley had sex cause she had a need to re-live her past of abuse and often felt dirty coming home drunk after hooking up with sleazist bar drunk she could find, she would project that i was cheating on her looking for some girl in the house...usually i was sleeping having to go to work the next day.  Some nights she'd be so out of control i'd have to leave the house and lseep in the car until she calmed down...and this is right after she cheated on me.  Yeah, I'm a real pig who thinks with my dick.  I loved this girl and she had problams.....i dont' even know why I'm explaining this to any of you...you really doin't understand. 

    And Erin....yeah....i'm a lot of fun to be with....one big party. I spent most of the last year trying to kill myself, crying about beck, looking to hurt some of the men who took advantage of beck when she was alive.  Erin's a real golddigger....in the past year i've known her I bought her a pair of boots, i mean she must be fucking me for that pair of boots.  I stopped working after Beck died, blown most of my money on things to numb the pain, and i meet this girl who totally cares for me and never once asked for anything from me.  Yup, she's in it for the money...and yeah, she was a lesbian until she met me.

    It's funny...i always dated older women.  I struggle with the age difference but Beck and Erin always laughed at me telling me that age is nothing but a number.  Apprently that is not the case for the people up here.

    You people really have no clue what you're talking about regarding beck.....my anniversary would have been this tuesday....thank you for taking my life and treating it so lightly.


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    I can't imagine having to go through what you've been through.  Your words make my heart hurt.

    I hope you find peace...sooner rather than later.

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    for erin and art: it was nice of you to come out and speak to us.  But you have to admit that for strangers looking in on your respective profiles that you certainly leave the door open for speculation.  we are truly sorry for the loss of lady beque, that is where the true tragedy lies.

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    [quote author=pincushion queen link=topic=4465.msg171450#msg171450 date=1170456782]

    I give you tons of credit. Takes a strong person to give that kind of support to someone you care for.  in this scenario it is so easy for outsiders to pin you as a bad guy. Be it people here or people close to the situation. Its ovbious he's a lucky guy to have someone to pick him up when he is down.
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    Re: Rebecca "Lady Beque" Connolly (23) suffocated in her own pillows after going

    Not to make light of the situation...but I'm definitely directing my fiance to this thread.



    He thinks I have emotional baggage...


    Good for you Erin - you must be one helluva woman!

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    Erin is amazing....being honest, I've been a total mess this past year.  It was only after the anniversary of Beck's death and my moving out of the house we lived in for me to start feeling any better.  But how would you like to date a guy that talks about his late wife ALL the time?  A guy who makes his late wife seem like someone you could never compete with.  Beck did a lot of messed up stuff to me, she couldn't help herself, would you want eo be with a guy who tells you some vile thing his late wife did to him then follows it with how he'd do anything to be back with her?  I mean, I've wanted to go out and hurt some of the people who took advantage of beck....in many cases erin was the only thing that stopped me.

    I'm a mess, I don't know what Erin sees in me but I'm grateful she's in my life.  and as I've said before, she has never asked me for anything.....Erin probaby is the most crazy girl i know just for wanting to be with me.
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    Art I'm sorry for your loss.  I'm glad you found someone so selfless to care for you.
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    How do i reply to someone previous post?

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    Go to the post in question and click on quote in the top right corner.
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    Thank you! :)

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    Thank you! :)
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    You're welcome. 
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    [quote author=red01angel link=topic=4465.msg171477#msg171477 date=1170458165]
    Not to make light of the situation...but I'm definitely directing my fiance to this thread.



    He thinks I have emotional baggage...


    Good for you Erin - you must be one helluva woman!
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    Thank you sweetheart! <3

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    Re: Rebecca "Lady Beque" Connolly (23) suffocated in her own pillows after going

    [quote author=red01angel link=topic=4465.msg171477#msg171477 date=1170458165]
    Not to make light of the situation...but I'm definitely directing my fiance to this thread.



    He thinks I have emotional baggage...


    Good for you Erin - you must be one helluva woman!
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    [quote author=pincushion queen link=topic=4465.msg171450#msg171450 date=1170456782]

    I give you tons of credit. Takes a strong person to give that kind of support to someone you care for.   in this scenario it is so easy for outsiders to pin you as a bad guy. Be it people here or people close to the situation. Its ovbious he's a lucky guy to have someone to pick him up when he is down.
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    Your sweet Hun, i just do what comes natural, and what comes natural is loving him. God, im so emo, ARGH!  :-D

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    Re: Rebecca "Lady Beque" Connolly (23) suffocated in her own pillows after going

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    Have him email me on myspace....I'll show him what real emotional baggage is.  I laugh about it now but up until around december Erin and I would be having sex then I'd start thinking about Beck and break down crying.  Yeah...so sexy.  Even now, where things are much better, I'm real careful not to put myself in situations where i'm thinking about her all the time.  I love Erin but i really miss Beck and wish i could have done more to help her.  I really thought i could save her....
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    [quote author=red01angel link=topic=4465.msg171493#msg171493 date=1170459068]
    You know, the only person you can save is yourself.  And it sucks sometimes.
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    SO TRUE.

    R.I.P. Beque.

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    [quote author=red01angel link=topic=4465.msg171493#msg171493 date=1170459068]

    You know, the only person you can save is yourself.  And it sucks sometimes.
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    Sorry, this is way off topic, but im looking at your default pic and just thought id say your quite sexy ;)

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    [quote author=Sadistic Cunt link=topic=4465.msg171496#msg171496 date=1170459348]
    Sorry, this is way off topic, but im looking at your default pic and just thought id say your quite sexy ;)
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    Thanks!  My Myspace is in posted in my profile if you want to see it.


    You're gorgeous. 

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    [quote author=red01angel link=topic=4465.msg171493#msg171493 date=1170459068]

    You know, the only person you can save is yourself.  And it sucks sometimes.
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    [quote author=asouza link=topic=4465.msg171489#msg171489 date=1170458710]
    Have him email me on myspace....I'll show him what real emotional baggage is.  I laugh about it now but up until around december Erin and I would be having sex then I'd start thinking about Beck and break down crying.  Yeah...so sexy.  Even now, where things are much better, I'm real careful not to put myself in situations where i'm thinking about her all the time.   I love Erin but i really miss Beck and wish i could have done more to help her.  I really thought i could save her....
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    it hurts just to read this post.  art, you and erin are in my thoughts.

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