Ashley Thomas (20) committed suicide after battling eating disorders

[Olivia]

http://mydeathspace.com/article/2010/08/06/Ashley_Thomas_(20)_committed_suicide_after_battlin g_eating_disorders

Our beloved daughter Ashley Marie Behunin Thomas has returned to the loving care of her Father in Heaven on Monday, January 04, 2010. Ashley was born in Salt Lake City, Utah on May 10, 1989. On July 4, 2007 Ashley was married to Joshua Evans Thomas in Woodland Hills, Utah. Her friends from American Fork High School will always remember Ashley. She loved animals; especially horses and kitty cats as well, and they loved her. They were drawn to her as though they knew her kindness and gentleness. Ashley so wanted to be involved with music; she loved it and had a good ear for beautiful melodies. She found great comfort in uplifting songs and tunes. Ashley's greatest talent has been her loving kindness toward others. Ashley did not judge another person before she could love them. She loved unconditionally and we all knew it, especially children. Ashley is survived by her husband Joshua Thomas; her two beautiful daughters, Shelby Destiny Thomas (age 2 1/2 ) and Hannah Grace Thomas (age 1). They were the two brightest stars in her life and she will love them and watch over them always. Her parents: Gina Marie Hasson (Mother), Mark Allen Hasson (Step-Father), Jimmy Allan Behunin (Father) and Winnie Liu Behunin (Step-Mother); and three loving siblings, Amber Nichole Behunin, David Austin Behunin and Mark Ammon Hasson, also survive Ashley. Funeral services for Ashley will be held at the LDS chapel located at: 950 S. 50 E., Orem, Utah on Monday, January 11, 2010. There will be a viewing held at 10:00 a.m. and services will begin at 11:00 a.m. She will be laid to rest at the Provo Cemetery immediately following the services.


VERY interesting myspace comments from someone who is not Josh (her husband)

Dec 30 2008 11:46 PM

your gutless hor good luck with your life bitch

Sep 30 2008 6:28 PM

this is some serious shit ash i don't believe it is joshes niether does nobody else you need to come to your senses and realize that baby is ours and if is great but i will never go back to if you came back cause i am gettin married to girl that respects me and she is having my baby she 3 weeks long and she knows its mine she spread her legs like you

p 16 2008 8:53 PM

you need to let me know what is up this kid there is alot people that say it is mine and you think the baby is joshes well we won't know until you get an ultra sound you need to let me know cause that child is most likely mine i am pissed that you haven't gone to the doctor you need to get the doctor asap no matter what takes. and after you need to tell me whats up.

[firefly]

Suicide. RIP Ashley.

Her mom is posting on Heart and Soul Suicide Group on FB

http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000989584799&v=wall&ref= search#!/pages/Heart-and-Soul-Suicide-Support-Group/185361587166?ref=mf#wall



Gina Marie Hasson To Nancy I am a mother of a daughter that strugeld with eating disorders among other things she committed suicide four months ago I am so heart broken ..... pleease know that your life is so very important you can make it through I promise
April 27 at 8:46pm · Report

[neenerneener]

  those are some nasty comments on her myspace.  jeez.

so sad that she left behind 2 little kids.  RIP Ashley :(

[windowface]

[quote author=Olivia link=topic=25195.msg1613343#msg1613343 date=1272770323]
http://www.myspace.com/ashleyandbrycewing



VERY interesting myspace comments from someone who is not Josh (her husband)

Dec 30 2008 11:46 PM

your gutless hor good luck with your life bitch

Sep 30 2008 6:28 PM

this is some serious shit ash i don't believe it is joshes niether does nobody else you need to come to your senses and realize that baby is ours and if is great but i will never go back to if you came back cause i am gettin married to girl that respects me and she is having my baby she 3 weeks long and she knows its mine she spread her legs like you

p 16 2008 8:53 PM

you need to let me know what is up this kid there is alot people that say it is mine and you think the baby is joshes well we won't know until you get an ultra sound you need to let me know cause that child is most likely mine i am pissed that you haven't gone to the doctor you need to get the doctor asap no matter what takes. and after you need to tell me whats up.



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i believe that psycho-sounding dude who posted those rude-ass comments is one bryce wing, whose name is conveniently included in the myspace url up top.

another interesting point: only his rip note shows up on her comments, nobody else's... plus he and his family are featured in her photos more than she is.

[Bella]

[quote author=windowface link=topic=25195.msg1614098#msg1614098 date=1272855158]

i believe that psycho-sounding dude who posted those rude-ass comments is one bryce wing, whose name is conveniently included in the myspace url up top.

another interesting point: only his rip note shows up on her comments, nobody else's... plus he and his family are featured in her photos more than she is.
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I get the feeling that this was a private myspace her husband and family had no idea existed.

[windowface]

[quote author=GothaBella link=topic=25195.msg1614257#msg1614257 date=1272860853]

I get the feeling that this was a private myspace her husband and family had no idea existed.
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seriously. i almost wouldn't be surprised if ashley herself didn't know the myspace page existed.. except the vitriolic comments are a bit much for that dude to just write for his own private catharsis.

[irishkat]

Wow, he was hardcore obsessed with her.

[moosella]

Bryce's Facebook (and just see info and friends)-
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1836886465&ref=sgm

Her mom has a bunch of various pictures in this album, including ones of Ashley's children-
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=30639191&id=1556170326

And this album has pics from Ashley's funeral (they are all kinda small)-
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=30636453&id=1556170326

[YayMe]

That whole Myspace thing is weird.  It has her as 23, but her obit says 20.  Not that it's weird in itself, people lie about their ages all the time.  But most of the people on her friends list are young teens, like 14/15.  That Bryce guy is only 19 now, so back when all those comments were posted he was 17.  It doesn't seem real to me.  If I had been her and some douchey ex was stalking me, I would have blocked his ass.  I wonder when she got married.  Maybe she never used that Myspace post husband.

[YayMe]

Nevermind...rereading the article, I guess she got married in 07.

[moosella]

[quote author=YayMe link=topic=25195.msg1688970#msg1688970 date=1281033856]
That whole Myspace thing is weird.  It has her as 23, but her obit says 20.  Not that it's weird in itself, people lie about their ages all the time.  But most of the people on her friends list are young teens, like 14/15.  That Bryce guy is only 19 now, so back when all those comments were posted he was 17.  It doesn't seem real to me.  If I had been her and some douchey ex was stalking me, I would have blocked his ass.  I wonder when she got married.  Maybe she never used that Myspace post husband.
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Yeah I found all young friends odd too but I think one is her step brother and the others are Bryce's family. Very strange situation.

[A Midnight Dreary]

Wow, she's a Mormon, too. My family's Mormon and a Mormon killing themselves is not something one hears about often.

[Key2theSkies]

[quote author=A Midnight Dreary link=topic=25195.msg1689048#msg1689048 date=1281042216]
Wow, she's a Mormon, too. My family's Mormon and a Mormon killing themselves is not something one hears about often. [/quote]


A MORMON? SHIIIIIIIET HAD TO BE SOMETHING DEEP GOING ON HERE. THE EATING DISORDER IS ONE THING. I MEAN COME ON SHE HAD 2 HEALTHY BABIES IT SEEMS. I SAY ITS THE WACK JOBS BABY AND SHE'D RATHER 0FF HERSELF THAN DEAL WITH THAT FACT












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[rachy]

i read some comments on her sister's fb. ashley's husband is moving to california,he is taking the oldest girl and leaving the youngest behind apparently bryce is the father. her brother said that he has different children all over the place.

Toni Mecham Allen Do you not see them very often?
May 12 at 10:33pm ·

David Austin Behunin nope there phsycho baby sitter thinks she's gonna be there *new* mom and shes just crazy and says she "loves" josh Thomas and she doesn't think we should be able to say them ugh shes such a _____ yeah i think u can fill in the blank(no it not a swear word) ugh shes such an AARRGGG nicole is an insane idiot and there *other* g-ma is just as crazy
May 12 at 11:37pm ·

Toni Mecham Allen Too bad utah doesn't believe in grand-parent's rights. Otherwise your mom could sue for visitation. Does nicole realize that no matter what, your blood run's through their vein's? Nothing will ever change that. I hope she is haunted by the fact they are not her kid's... They never will be. She's the babysitter, and even if she marry's josh, they're still not her kid's. What a total ______. Women like that need to be taught a lesson.
May 12 at 11:59pm ·

David Austin Behunin ikr? and josh dont even like her hes moving tro cailfornia and he wants to take shelby with him :'(
May 13 at 12:01am ·

Toni Mecham Allen If he move's to cali where is hannah going to be?
May 13 at 12:12am ·

David Austin Behunin with *disgusting horrid stupid dumb jerk freak gay idiot with kids around the country* bryce (throws up in mouth) wing eck even typing his name makes me sick
May 13 at 12:50am ·

Toni Mecham Allen Bryce sound's better than the babysitter though...
May 13 at 12:57am ·

Amber Behunin I dont really wont sweet little hannah with either of them =( she should be with us if josh doesn't want her what stupid person woudnt want a sweet angel like hannah???
May 14 at 10:16am ·

Shalice Walker I think Hannah deserves to know her real dad, even if its Bryce. Because every child deserves to know their real parents, and get the chance to bond with them. I never had my real dad in my life, and if wants to be apart of her life you should not stop him from seeing her. I dont agree with the fact that the girls should be split up though, they already lost their mom. I think Bryce should have rights to see Hannah though, because it was Ashleys choice to make a baby with him.
May 14 at 12:25pm ·

Toni Mecham Allen Very well said shall.
May 14 at 2:08pm ·

Mindy Wolfe Very well said.. Indeed
May 14 at 2:23pm ·

Shalice Walker Thanks just my own veiw on things:)
May 14 at 6:05pm ·

i've been on here before but never commented. hope i did things right.

[irishkat]

[quote author=rachy link=topic=25195.msg1690098#msg1690098 date=1281181044]
i read some comments on her sister's fb. ashley's husband is moving to california,he is taking the oldest girl and leaving the youngest behind apparently bryce is the father. her brother said that he has different children all over the place.

Toni Mecham Allen Do you not see them very often?
May 12 at 10:33pm ·

David Austin Behunin nope there phsycho baby sitter thinks she's gonna be there *new* mom and shes just crazy and says she "loves" josh Thomas and she doesn't think we should be able to say them ugh shes such a _____ yeah i think u can fill in the blank(no it not a swear word) ugh shes such an AARRGGG nicole is an insane idiot and there *other* g-ma is just as crazy
May 12 at 11:37pm ·

Toni Mecham Allen Too bad utah doesn't believe in grand-parent's rights. Otherwise your mom could sue for visitation. Does nicole realize that no matter what, your blood run's through their vein's? Nothing will ever change that. I hope she is haunted by the fact they are not her kid's... They never will be. She's the babysitter, and even if she marry's josh, they're still not her kid's. What a total ______. Women like that need to be taught a lesson.
May 12 at 11:59pm ·

David Austin Behunin ikr? and josh dont even like her hes moving tro cailfornia and he wants to take shelby with him :'(
May 13 at 12:01am ·

Toni Mecham Allen If he move's to cali where is hannah going to be?
May 13 at 12:12am ·

David Austin Behunin with *disgusting horrid stupid dumb jerk freak gay idiot with kids around the country* bryce (throws up in mouth) wing eck even typing his name makes me sick
May 13 at 12:50am ·

Toni Mecham Allen Bryce sound's better than the babysitter though...
May 13 at 12:57am ·

Amber Behunin I dont really wont sweet little hannah with either of them =( she should be with us if josh doesn't want her what stupid person woudnt want a sweet angel like hannah???
May 14 at 10:16am ·

Shalice Walker I think Hannah deserves to know her real dad, even if its Bryce. Because every child deserves to know their real parents, and get the chance to bond with them. I never had my real dad in my life, and if wants to be apart of her life you should not stop him from seeing her. I dont agree with the fact that the girls should be split up though, they already lost their mom. I think Bryce should have rights to see Hannah though, because it was Ashleys choice to make a baby with him.
May 14 at 12:25pm ·

Toni Mecham Allen Very well said shall.
May 14 at 2:08pm ·

Mindy Wolfe Very well said.. Indeed
May 14 at 2:23pm ·

Shalice Walker Thanks just my own veiw on things:)
May 14 at 6:05pm ·

i've been on here before but never commented. hope i did things right.

[/quote]

Thanks for the info!  Welcome to MDS

[Muteki]

I feel incredibly sorry for the children in this case 

[rachy]

[quote author=irishkat link=topic=25195.msg1690128#msg1690128 date=1281189991]
Thanks for the info!  Welcome to MDS


you're welcome and thank you!

[Nancy Drew]

She looked like Pandora.

[zeebee]

I'm always amazed at the personal information that people will divulge online.

This is a really sad story.

[poppy213]

She had to be suffering from some level of postpartum?  To be that young with them so close in age, her body must have been a tetter-tooter of emotions. :2sad:

[i_love_zack]

ok im ashley's cuzin and we were very close.. you all need to sut up you dont know the situation at all!!!

[neenerneener]

how does one sut up? 

[sarabei]

Yes, please edumacate us. 

[kevschickee]

tell us the situation

[rosebuddy]

[quote author=neenerneener link=topic=25195.msg1694590#msg1694590 date=1281718011]
how does one sut up? 
[/quote]

perhaps she means, "suit up." or, "slut up."

easy mistake.  :-)