[quote author=death becomes her. link=topic=3591.msg176648#msg176648 date=1170796991]
so i guess everyone has to start out as a "noob".
i thought that this site was just to talk to other people who have a morbid fascination with how people die.
haha.
i didnt know it was like some type of contest.
oh well.
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It has a social structure as does everything else.  To ignore it is like walking into a random bar and assuming it's just there for drinking.