Its really hard for me. I grew up in a house with mental illness and my family is so fucking riddled with insanity its terrifying. I feel like I am abandoning him, but at the same time, I am afraid if I get in this too deep, I am going to lose my grip.
[quote author=IvannaTrailer link=topic=17550.msg1313980#msg1313980 date=1245858338]
Its really hard for me. I grew up in a house with mental illness and my family is so fucking riddled with insanity its terrifying. I feel like I am abandoning him, but at the same time, I am afraid if I get in this too deep, I am going to lose my grip.
[/quote]Is being his friend out of the question?
[quote author=IvannaTrailer link=topic=17550.msg1313980#msg1313980 date=1245858338]
Its really hard for me. I grew up in a house with mental illness and my family is so fucking riddled with insanity its terrifying. I feel like I am abandoning him, but at the same time, I am afraid if I get in this too deep, I am going to lose my grip.
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Lose your grip on what? reality?
[quote author=IvannaTrailer link=topic=17550.msg1313968#msg1313968 date=1245856892]
At this point I am so fucking angry from the shit he has pulled and he is so fucking crazy I dont even know if there is a relationship left to salvage. Hell, I don't even know if he will ever come over here again (he can't call right now because he broke my phone in fucking half). When he left he said he "might" be back after he was done with the docs (provided they don't lock him down) and that if the door was locked he would just leave. I keep locking and unlocking the door. :|
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If you're going to stay with this guy, could you do MDS a favor?
Link your MySpace please. And keep it public.
Originally Posted by bowieluva
[quote author=IvannaTrailer link=topic=17550.msg1313968#msg1313968 date=1245856892]
At this point I am so fucking angry from the shit he has pulled and he is so fucking crazy I dont even know if there is a relationship left to salvage. Hell, I don't even know if he will ever come over here again (he can't call right now because he broke my phone in fucking half). When he left he said he "might" be back after he was done with the docs (provided they don't lock him down) and that if the door was locked he would just leave. I keep locking and unlocking the door. :|
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If a man breaks your phone in half and goes psycho on you, I'd hope for your sake that you consider the relationship over. Keep your door locked.
"A vagabond dreamer, a rhymer and singer of songs
Singing to no one and nowhere to really belong." - Waylon Jennings
crap! i was going to complain about my kid's running in and out the freaking door, but WOW!
i say RUN as fast as you can! :|
Ivanna, if not for you, for your kids. Get away from this dude now and MAKE IT STICK. 
[quote author=Nomad link=topic=17550.msg1314039#msg1314039 date=1245864187]
If a man breaks your phone in half and goes psycho on you, I'd hope for your sake that you consider the relationship over. Keep your door locked.
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But..but....but....are you sure? It's a tough decision. Not something you can just decide so quickly.
I agree with Peavey, you have kids to think about Ivanna, get outta that relationship. There ARE sane men out there. You don't have to be in a relationship with crazy just cos you grew up with crazy. Don't be his caretaker, or worse, a victim :(
[quote author=Ron_NYC link=topic=17550.msg1314171#msg1314171 date=1245872517]
But..but....but....are you sure? It's a tough decision. Not something you can just decide so quickly.
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I wouldn't even be at my house for a good month or two, if ever. I'd move if I were renting. Six months is long, but not THAT long. I'd sever that shit before my kids ended up making him snap.
[quote author=Hellbettie link=topic=17550.msg1314177#msg1314177 date=1245872676]
I wouldn't even be at my house for a good month or two, if ever. I'd move if I were renting. Six months is long, but not THAT long. I'd sever that shit before my kids ended up making him snap.
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That's what I was thinking. Just being a smart ass cause the death threads aren't moving today.
They sedated the shit out of him. His parents took him to their house. He goes to the hospital Monday for inpatient treatment until they get him stabilized on meds.
[quote author=IvannaTrailer link=topic=17550.msg1314196#msg1314196 date=1245874045]
They sedated the shit out of him. His parents took him to their house. He goes to the hospital Monday for inpatient treatment until they get him stabilized on meds.
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More than enough time to pack your shit and get out.
[quote author=Ron_NYC link=topic=17550.msg1314199#msg1314199 date=1245874080]
More than enough time to pack your shit and get out.
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Unless he plans on walking twenty miles he won't be around for awhile.
[quote author=IvannaTrailer link=topic=17550.msg1314200#msg1314200 date=1245874144]
Unless he plans on walking twenty miles he won't be around for awhile.
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Be gone before he gets back
[quote author=Ron_NYC link=topic=17550.msg1314199#msg1314199 date=1245874080]
More than enough time to pack your shit and get out.
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What he said.
If you are struggling with the feeling that you are abandoning him, just remember that in addition to being crazy he's also a liar that hid a huge fact from you, one you had a right to know. Shadiness is always indicative of larger problems, in this case, craziness and who knows what else.
[quote author=IvannaTrailer link=topic=17550.msg1314200#msg1314200 date=1245874144]
Unless he plans on walking twenty miles he won't be around for awhile.
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Well you're obviously expecting him back sooner rather than later since you said you vacillate back and forth between locking and unlocking the door.
No one ever gets me.Where is Lawchick? We speak the same intellectual language.
Fuckin LawChick, how does she work?
[quote author=LawChick link=topic=17550.msg1314208#msg1314208 date=1245874602]
Well you're obviously expecting him back sooner rather than later since you said you vacillate back and forth between locking and unlocking the door.
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I think that was before she found out what happened at the doctor.
[quote author=angelaiscaustic link=topic=17550.msg1314207#msg1314207 date=1245874502]
What he said.
If you are struggling with the feeling that you are abandoning him, just remember that in addition to being crazy he's also a liar that hid a huge fact from you, one you had a right to know. Shadiness is always indicative of larger problems, in this case, craziness and who knows what else.
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The lying part would bother me more than the untreated medical condition. It would be one thing for him to not know that he was sick and needed help and another thing to lie about it and not address the issue like it's going to go away.
I think she already knows the answer. It's just a matter of following through at this point.
No one ever gets me.Fuckin LawChick, how does she work?
[quote author=LawChick link=topic=17550.msg1314214#msg1314214 date=1245874976]
I think she already knows the answer. It's just a matter of not following through at this point.
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I was being optimistic. :|
No one ever gets me.Fuckin LawChick, how does she work?
[quote author=LawChick link=topic=17550.msg1314225#msg1314225 date=1245875547]
I was being optimistic. :|
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When a person is involved with a crazy partner....don't ever be. :lol:
[quote author=Ron_NYC link=topic=17550.msg1314226#msg1314226 date=1245875612]
When a person is involved with a crazy partner....don't ever be. :lol:
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Oh Ron. You're such a downer.
No one ever gets me.Fuckin LawChick, how does she work?
[quote author=LawChick link=topic=17550.msg1314229#msg1314229 date=1245875653]
Oh Ron. You're such a downer.
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If you don't expect shit, you can't ever be disappointed. Best case, you're relieved when everything turns out better than expected.
I'm moar emo than I care to be today. I was taking my daughter to basketball practice and started bawling when Eminem's "Beautiful" came on
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