[quote author=Chauncy link=topic=16212.msg1208938#msg1208938 date=1236579303]
And it probably was to her. Too bad this guy wasn't a virgin.
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The following is my opinion, and my opinion only. It's not based on facts, and true to my MDS name I am drunk posting this:
I'm certain he was a virgin when first met Jodi. It seems far fetched, but the more you know about the LDS church, the less far fetched it seems.
PPL is probably strongly influenced by members in the LDS. LDS people stick together and help each other out. I'm sure that the majority of the people he sold policies to and recruited to sell under him were Mormons. You heard his fellow brethren say they didn't approve of his relationship with Jodi. This is important because his success with prepaid legal hinged on staying in the good graces of the LDS.
Jodi jeopardized everything he worked so hard to achieve, and he had to choose between having success through his connections with the LDS church and throwing it all away to be with Jodi. He was probably bright enough to know that if he threw it all away, Jodi would lose interest in him, fast. Moreover, by LDS standards he was a highly desirable man and Mormon girls 10 years younger than Jodi would break their pelvis to marry him. In some ways, that does make him a tool, but she was pretty much a golddigger anyway. If you can't tell from this girl's interviews, she's got one hell of an ego and she did not like getting dumped at all. I think she offered him FWB to stay in his life, and he had a hard time saying no. He thought with the wrong head, and who can blame him -- she's attractive. I think she was after him for money. Let's face it, she was a waitress/bartender and the guy was able to afford to take her on trips to see the world. He looked like a pretty good meal ticket. I think he was horny and couldn't resist what she was throwing at him. He was in a very sexually restrictive religion, was sexually frustrated, and he faltered. It's not like he was one of those priests who molested little boys or anything like that. This man did nothing to deserve getting shot in the face, stabbed 30 times, and have his throat slit ear to ear.