Originally Posted by
VioletPlanet
Travis could have said, NO WAY and did not. He chose to continually have sex with someone he did not love enough to marry. Someone who he knew was stalking him. Someone who he knew wanted a solid commitment that he could not give. Why could he not give this commitment? Because he KNEW she was unstable and did not want this kind of person in his life in a permanent and serious way. Hence, the secret relationship after the fake break-up. This is the bottom line, people. These actions do not make Travis a bad person or an abuser of any kind. What this behavior says to me, is that this man wanted to have sex with her without a commitment. I wonder if he told her this. On his last day on earth, knowing she was stalking him, knowing that she was obsessed with him, knowing that he was not about to marry her or even take her seriously as a permanent mate, he still CHOSE to satisfy his desires. This is on HIM, not HER.