Family members of Chassidy Guerrero implored those gathered at a vigil Tuesday night to reach out to someone if they are having a difficult time.

Chassidy, 17, a junior at Topeka High School, died Saturday.

Luis Guerrero, Chassidy's grandfather, denounced bullying behavior. He asked people to help each other and to talk to each other, teachers and counselors.

Family and friends gathered on the south side of Topeka High where they lit candles that lined the stairs.

Chassidy's mother, Ana De La Cruz, along with her aunt told the group they are not alone.

"If you ever feel alone, just speak up," De La Cruz said.

Chassidy was remembered as a young woman with a great sense of humor, who was also a caring friend.

"She was a really supportive friend," said Tressa Dennen, a student in the Seaman school district. "She was just there when I needed her. It's hard for everyone."

Shamra Dennen, Tressa's mother, remembered Chassidy as a very bright girl who laughed a lot.


A lot can hide behind a smile, Dennen then said.

Guerrero said his granddaughter was "hilarious," while her mom and aunt spoke about her smile, laughter and sense of humor.

Sarah Dodson, 37, who organized the event, said the vigil was designed to "remember this beautiful girl that was very much like a daughter to me" and to provide a chance for her friends and family members "to mourn and have some closure."

Dodson recalled Chassidy teaching her Spanish words and how much fun they had during a trip to Worlds of Fun. Others shared funny stories about Chassidy as they laughed through their tears.

Dodson said times have changed and life is harder today for teenagers. But there are other options and people who care, Dodson said.

In Topeka, there are 24/7 options for adults and juveniles, said Valeo CEO Bill Persinger.

Adults can walk into Valeo at 400 S.W. Oakley Ave. or call the organization's crisis line at (785) 234-3300 where they can reach a licensed therapist.


Family Services and Guidance Center works with juveniles. Their crisis line can be reached at (785) 232-5005.

"There's help available immediately," Persinger said, adding that a person can get assistance regardless of their income or insurance status.

Though not an exhaustive list, people should look out for the following warning signs:

- changes in mood

- behavior patterns such as losing interest in things and isolating oneself

- downward turn in grades

- weight gain or loss not associated with a medical reason


- change in sleep patterns

- comments about suicide

While depression can seem permanent, Persinger said it is treatable and there is hope.